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Angela🐆🪩 :
Being emotionally mature doesn’t mean cutting people off the moment they show normal human emotions. Having triggers is human, but expecting everyone else to manage them for you isn’t emotional regulation.
2026-06-13 12:29:15
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r00dqueen :
peoples too often think emotionally maturity means we'll have unconditional understanding and just let you keep going, no.
2026-06-13 14:53:42
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thando.wins :
cutting people off isn’t emotionally mature, it’s the exact opposite. if you’re emotionally mature you should be able to voice to your friend why/how they hurt you without running away?
2026-06-15 12:06:57
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Riots Mom :
Ppl confuse regulated with suppress emotions . Absolutely not .
2026-06-13 15:09:31
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GetTheDoorTor :
I don’t even give a heads up. Not dealing with it. Goodbye.
2026-06-13 06:13:01
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Mercy ✨️ :
I had a therapist attempt to tell me that it was irresponsible amd unkind of me to leave someone alone after setting a boundary and that was crossed more than once. Had to leave her alone too.
2026-06-14 19:02:39
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LunaBlu :
I’m confused because cutting off ppl seems very reasonable to me. If you have drama or foolishness I’m not here for it.
2026-06-13 18:29:20
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theseanetts :
I don’t have timeeeeee! I did the work in my 20s so I didn’t have to do it in my 30s. I expect that from other people my age. Figure it outttttt
2026-06-14 13:37:39
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Mika :
Emotional maturity has got nothing to do with being able to read between the lines. It’s reading the lines that are being given, and choosing in your own capacity what YOU need to do once one of a line is crossed. If someone is determined to punish you with passive aggressiveness because they have higher expectations for you they do themselves, there’s no resolution to be had that would be mutually beneficial.
2026-06-13 20:46:26
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davsdynasty18 :
Maybe I’m different but ion cut folks off because they’re different than me 🤣…I will 100% work with people if they’re at different levels of emotional maturity than me🤣…cuz what yall just don’t like people
2026-06-14 08:15:57
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_ADOHIRA_ :
Bro THIS is why I barely got any friends 😂
2026-06-14 13:03:59
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Corrinna 🇨🇦 :
No because once you start actually working on shit, you realize how FEW PEOPLE work on shit at all. AT ALL.
2026-06-15 05:30:28
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b. 🕊️🦋🌱🎧✨🐞🏋🏻♀️ :
yeah. bc i’m nobody’s therapist. i’m not a walking bank. i’m not your mommy. the second i start getting anxiety or sense secret animosity. i’m out
2026-06-14 04:02:46
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youteker :
this is such a bad take
2026-06-15 06:02:34
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Sapphinora :
mii irish goodbyes come wen intuition say time ta go n they hit me with tht "u fake, u ain solid" yada yada... mii peace has no space for ppl who lack self awareness 🙄 but im the prollum... ill b tht.. PEACEFULLY 😂😂😐
2026-06-13 21:57:30
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She & Her🌙 :
He not lying but unfortunately Unhealed wounds can attract familiar lessons in different forms. Until healing happens, the cycle tends to repeat itself. An emotionally regulated person recognizes the pattern and chooses peace over the cycle.
2026-06-15 08:37:50
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𝐃𝐢𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐞 𝐌𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐜𝐞🧞♀️ :
THIS IS MAD FACTS!
2026-06-15 10:24:21
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user02773 :
My issue is that when I first meet new people they can sense my groundedness and sovereignty, and then react negatively to me. 👀
2026-06-13 23:37:31
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toforwood :
Cutting off people isn't emotionally mature either. I heard you say accountability, that goes both ways. If it's abuse or consistent behavior, yeah, tell them and cut ways - if it's toxic. Did that sort of recently. I've got a Bach in psychology and 3 years / current in therapy. People will leave on their own, if you have yourself straight, because boundaries. We should increase our capacity to handle situations. People can't learn from being ghosted very easily. Besides causing them so much pain. Meaning, maybe you are the first regulated person in their life. It's not your job, but it's sad to see people who have worked on themselves leaving others in the dark.
2026-06-14 19:14:26
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Kelsi Kelso Purcell :
Yessss…….. this. A lot of people don’t understand this!
2026-06-13 17:14:10
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highimmiserable :
my friend cussed at me during an argument, and I said "if you're going to cuss, I'm done. We can do this without that." The conversation ended quickly after that.
2026-06-14 22:15:29
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LittyfiityG7 :
All my friends are emotionally mature it’s refreshing 💯
2026-06-13 10:43:56
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PhD.T :
when i give you a solution but you keep telling me how to further the problem
2026-06-14 22:13:41
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