everyone's chronically online and are burnt out from work or school, and third spaces are harder to find. however, I do think people are becoming more aware of this and I'm seeing a resurgence of social spaces
2026-06-21 00:03:07
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honeycoolcat :
Text has ruined new friendships for me
2026-06-12 23:59:55
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slumboyxxxxx :
Socializing gonna bring connection which gonna be a great help in any aspects in life
2026-06-28 02:04:23
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moodswingsnoserings :
And everybody is extremely mean spirited and judgemental now
2026-06-13 17:27:43
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TheyHateToSeeAHappyHoneyComin' :
everything costs money but not every space even lets you linger or even use the bathroom
2026-06-12 23:21:38
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Bk :
Exactly. Third spaces have basically diminished to nearly non-existence in our current time/era. therefore making friends.. particularly making long term friends is something that has become fraught with misunderstandings and a lack of grace and context in most cases.
2026-06-12 22:54:36
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Taka :
The internet adds a layer of danger that makes it hard for people to connect I feel. Also, no one wants to talk IRL (or on the phone). I honestly feel people are scared of intimacy (non-romantic or romantic).
2026-06-12 23:46:59
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Isis sings :
Everybody is busy and overwhelmed, a lot of people just go to work and eat and sleep and repeat…
2026-06-14 13:07:32
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Dr Love Muffin :
Death of the third place.
2026-06-13 01:41:30
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Sey Dou :
Making friends as an adult is hard because you don’t have those built in environments anymore like school or sports. Everyone has jobs, families, and responsibilities. A lot of people want new friends but nobody wants to make the first move. Everyone is at different stages at life too. Plus, as you get older you’re looking for real connections, not just someone to hang around with. I think another issue of many , is people mistake length of knowing someone for quality of friendship. It’s harder now because people don’t wana grow or update their way of friend making.
2026-06-18 21:27:25
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Posted Thoughts :
It is tough but I kind of dont care to socialize anymore.
2026-06-12 23:28:10
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User :
Also everyone is overworked and exhausted.
2026-06-14 14:08:58
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j :
ive been watching like all of your videos and I genuinely believe you are one of the mose wise individuals on the planet
2026-06-13 03:20:09
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ASAP Gamer :
damn justin... you're the logic in my head that I cannot speak, you have a gift, brother. whatever it is, do it to the MAX 💯
2026-06-12 23:13:01
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Onion's mom💛 :
we need to meet up with our friends more often!
2026-06-13 01:23:35
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Brianna :
Just like dating it’s because friendship became commercialized but not in the direct sense but instead in the scope of social capital
2026-06-13 01:38:44
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Huni874 :
I guess I won't have any friends
2026-06-12 22:53:24
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Snaple :
I think we should lock eachother up with strangers and be stuck together for a week, and then find out if we are compatible
2026-06-12 23:38:51
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BigAuntie Breena❌ :
I don't have time to really look for new friends when I still have Cousins yet to meet.. so my focus has been on trying to get to know my family more 🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️
2026-06-24 12:17:28
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Dawg fell in love and stopped screaming
2026-06-13 12:05:09
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Mr_Ripped_Daytrader&Fitness :
I've met and befriended like 10 men in the last 6 months or so at the gym. we see each other regularly and could easily link up however the gym is where we socialize... some people link up at the bar. we link up in the gym 💪🏾
2026-06-14 19:50:22
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anonymous :
Brother always starts off small but then becomes a big storm of logic and reason! Just can't keep scrolling!
2026-06-16 16:58:58
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KMforpresident :
That girl took ya energy 😭😭😭
2026-06-14 22:39:44
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