@bennylichtenwalner: If your ex did any of the things that I said in this video, they probably broke up with you out of nowhere. This is because you were dating a dismissive avoidant who avoids conflict and doesn’t communicate and runs away from their feelings, and these issues have impacted your relationship now. If you want to get them back, DM me the word Benny for help
Worse, he said we live our lives in different paces and that his workload is too fast paced and heavy loaded. He’s a workaholic, working 18 hrs, 7 days.
2026-07-19 08:53:12
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T.Nicole :
Crazy you just said everything
2026-06-13 19:51:48
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thatbrunettegirl :
Exactly what happened to me, out of nowhere. But I wasn’t sure whether he was avoidant or just cautious/slow burn. Now it makes sense
2026-06-14 21:41:59
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Lgrace90 :
To the tea 😂
2026-06-13 18:24:27
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LeeAnna Matthews :
What does it mean when your ex texts you, in a very defensive manner and almost doesn't even sound like them and you remain silent, and then call you and you answer and they ask you if you tried calling them and you admit that you did by accident, and apologize. They are polite and decent when they talk on the phone and even say have a good weekend. Like the texts and the phone call were completely opposite from each other. And this is after they said that they were going to block you a few weeks ago.
2026-06-20 02:24:53
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danniellenisenoff :
my husband left me for another woman he knew for less than 2 months after 16years of marriage and 2 kids...
2026-06-25 18:22:20
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Sheri White :
its like ypu see into my situation lol
2026-06-13 20:27:10
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Angelina :
Benny
2026-06-13 15:56:24
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Leela Leela :
Yep 👌
2026-06-13 11:25:25
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lorireynolds154 :
you got it
2026-06-15 16:33:26
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✨Nataly✨ :
But is it a good idea to try and get them back? This sounds like you're setting yourself up for failure, especially if that person hasn't done the work to heal themselves. Wouldn't it be healthier for me to heal and just move on?
2026-06-16 09:45:16
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Bigbug45 :
It’s been 9 months blocked on everything. Idk what advice u got for this but it’s looking like I’m cooked Mr Benny.
2026-06-15 15:20:54
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Anuhea :
Called it
2026-06-14 11:34:43
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❤️🧡💛💚💙💜 Vee 🎼🎶🎶🎶 :
Blah 😞
2026-06-14 06:36:06
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JessG :
Benny
2026-06-13 21:30:22
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Legendary.brandon :
Benny
2026-06-28 11:21:16
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jaclynh7 :
Benny
2026-06-13 02:11:42
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bee :
benny
2026-06-16 19:12:32
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iamjaykinsey :
BENNY
2026-06-14 17:45:12
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RobG_GT :
Why would u want to get them back when they just going to do the same thing again
2026-06-14 21:26:19
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petecaseym :
It’s just weird that you hit every mark
2026-06-13 12:57:31
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emptyskins :
How do you spot an avoidant before getting attached?
2026-06-15 00:23:45
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Koreen 🦋 🕸️ :
“Avoid conflict”… he ran off to Ukraine to “work on himself” on the front lines. Pretty spot on, though
2026-06-13 17:18:56
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leeleejaii :
He saw with one drink and called me an alcoholic up he’s on harder drugs than the cartel but used the “my ex broke my heart and I’m not ready for a relationship with me man bye”
2026-06-26 10:34:58
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