Remi Jo
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Saturday 13 June 2026 01:28:30 GMT
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MJ🌸 :
Remi girl, not “advice,” just a reminder….you liiiiiterally are Remi fn Bader. Authentic, vulnerable, smart, successful, funny, beautiful and a freaking super model (literally)….any man would be SO lucky. Don’t forget it. Put the crown back on and don’t let it slip! 🩷
2026-06-13 01:54:09
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Mackenzie Whitticar :
You’re learning your worth and we love that👏🏻
2026-06-13 01:35:38
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user2825518136831 :
So what did we learn
2026-06-13 01:40:16
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Great South Blue :
You said earlier “if a man tells me he’s not into me I won’t text back” but I encourage you to RAISE YOUR BAR Queen. You should ONLY text them back if they make you genuinely feel wanted / good / etc! Fuck the rest
2026-06-13 01:39:32
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Alexis Hawes | Health Coach :
This is so real
2026-06-13 01:34:33
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colleenjohnsonnathan :
I love hearing from this Remi Bader. It sounds like your using therapy well, learning all about what Y
2026-06-13 01:54:28
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iheart_ari :
I block and never look back. I’ve got too much pride to unblock 😂
2026-06-13 01:55:13
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Brandy Cain :
But until you command that level of respect a man who will respect you at that level isn’t going to show up. It starts with respecting yourself first. I’ve been in your shoes 🤝
2026-06-13 01:44:49
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Libby Mommy1 :
Baby…this is not your fault. This treatment is what you are familiar with and what feels “normal” to you. Write down some reminders for yourself on how to protect yourself from assholes. 1. Ask yourself if you would be okay with seeing your Mom be treated in that manner. 2. Never contact the person who left or mistreated you, first. Let them make the first move. 3. Practice letting calls and texts go unanswered until you feel your worth and can protect yourself…it takes practice.🙏🏻💕
2026-06-13 04:01:57
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VegasPrncess :
Don't be male centered it's yucky. Men can see it and will act accordingly. You're worthy of being a loved well girly. Be confident in who you're don't hand over your power.
2026-06-13 04:44:35
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Lindz :
It takes time. You’ll get there because you’re so self aware and doing the work.
2026-06-13 01:53:26
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h@v! :
I love how vulnerable this is, truly 🩷🩷🩷
2026-06-13 01:44:41
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Sav :
Yes! Literally growing up everyone wanted to hook up and no one wanted anyone else to know about it… literally had a whole ass relationship with someone and he denied me to everyone the entire time.. ugh I’m glad I’m not alone but that was high school me.. but I’ve been with my husband 12 years so who’s to say I wouldn’t be that way now if we were not together… trauma 🥴
2026-06-16 02:43:17
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Sunita Tsiames :
The dangerous part of this is saying “when I meet a guy who treats me well I’ll enjoy that.” The key is to believe that you are worthy of better and not accepting less, regardless of whether or not you’re with a man. It took years of therapy for me to get there, but I did, and you will, too! ❤️
2026-06-13 11:52:00
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marie :
You are amazing ! I have been following you since practically day one ! You are evolving and changing everyday ! Keep being you ❤️
2026-07-01 04:12:36
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Ally :
Going back to a former fling that didn’t work is like picking the dented can off the shelf or choosing the misshapen or rotten fruit. In so many areas of our lives we don’t opt for the broken icky things so why isn’t it the same when it comes to dating?
2026-06-16 13:36:45
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emily.dirisio :
Remi we’ve all been that girl ❤️no judgement. Learning, growing and changing is not linear.
2026-06-13 02:39:56
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Golsa :
You’re learning and that all matters ♥️🫂
2026-06-13 01:44:58
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Michelley :
Remi! I'm just obsessed with you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-13 01:34:35
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Rachael :
My therapist likes to ask “what would you say to a friend?” This helps me recognize the difference in how I view/talk to myself vs others ❤️
2026-06-14 02:51:57
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Coach Carrington :
Love the vulnerability and self reflection. Learn to get the ICK from disrespect and poor treatment. Instead of viewing it as trying to 1 up the guy, get him to choose you, convince him you’re actually great or continue to connect through fighting with him and calling him a jerk. Men not interested in you should immediately give you the ick. Men showing low interest should give you the ick. Men know immediately if they see you long term. So if you’re circling back, trying to win him over or pursue him- you’re in a vulnerable position with a man that is allowing your presence but doesn’t actually want it so it will be easy for him to be cruel to you. When men like you, it’s obvious. If he isn’t obvious and hell yah about you, you MOVE tf on. You’re okay alone. And you’re actually incredible and worthy of being with a proud partner, not hidden.
2026-06-15 17:42:54
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Joanne :
You just described my life
2026-06-14 00:00:53
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Laura Beth :
You’re doing what you need to do. You’re exactly where you should be. Day by day, Remi. I’m 43 and have GONE THROUGH IT. It gets better, I promise! Your heart is SO BIG! Your life is just beginning ❤️
2026-06-13 05:39:45
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Honolulu Eats :
Proud of you for speaking out, Remi
2026-06-13 01:42:41
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🆑🅰️♏️ :
Have you seen the show shrill? It was so so good and very relatable
2026-06-13 12:34:32
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