@masuma.256: sharing my thoughts, I see many parents do this, talk badly about family members. In many families, elders say life is like sowing seeds. what we plant in words and actions grows in the next generation. If a child constantly hears that their father’s brothers and sisters are “bad people,” the child may unconsciously learn that conflict, resentment, and separation are normal between siblings. Later, they may repeat the same pattern with their own brothers, sisters, and cousins. What we sow in children’s hearts , bitterness or mercy often returns in the future. You can still protect your child from harmful behaviour without teaching hatred. Instead of saying: “Your aunties and uncles are bad people,” you can say: “Some people make hurtful choices, but we still try to keep good character.” “We keep boundaries while staying respectful.” “Family can make mistakes, and we learn from them.” That teaches wisdom without planting division. #fyp #wisdom #familyfirst #conflict #problems

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