@depuom: Are platonic friendships between men and women a real thing?

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user79055669911034
Will_one :
No
2026-06-13 22:25:08
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lukhanyosikwebu_8
Lukhanyo Sikwebu :
No.
2026-06-13 23:00:40
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user905886147772
Abdul :
no, there will be temptations, feelings will come and go, is very hard to maintain, me and u cant be real friends, why i am already tempted, so meaning is not gonna work
2026-06-14 01:40:38
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beans_of_burden
beans_of_burden :
I believe it is possible, but only if we're willing to have honest conversations with each other. One thing I think people often overlook is that you have to genuinely like your friends and your partner. Liking someone is what makes you consider them. It's knowing their favourite drink, flowers, chocolate, or book. It's being willing to leave your house at 11 p.m. because they're in hospital, even if the situation isn't life-threatening. Those actions come from care. The caveat is that romantic love is simply a more intense expression of that same care. Because of that, it's inevitable that some friendships will reach a point where one person develops deeper feelings and confesses them, often because they value the relationship and want to spend more of their life with that person. Is that inherently a bad thing? Perhaps the healthier approach is to have an adult conversation about it. One person can respectfully say, "I love you too, but not romantically," and the other person should be able to respect that response. Not every declaration of love has to lead to a relationship, and not every rejection has to mean the end of a friendship. Too often, people approach these situations with an all-or-nothing mindset. But if the friendship was genuinely valuable to begin with, there should be room for honesty, respect, and acceptance, even when the feelings aren't shared in the same way.
2026-06-14 16:43:19
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user326553958657
user326553958657 :
No
2026-06-13 18:52:14
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mazi0115
Mazi :
Yes
2026-06-13 20:04:28
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mwenefraisermagui
MweneFM :
two sides of the same coin!!!
2026-06-13 08:55:38
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lukejohnso11
LL :
yes. sometimes friendship is of much value, you just need to respect each other.
2026-06-14 01:25:07
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glenzo174
Glenzo :
no, because someone starts developing feelings
2026-06-14 04:29:52
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mascomukes
Masco Mukes :
No ways...
2026-06-13 23:56:02
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hloxyman
HloniP🇿🇦 :
Very much so. Friendship is valuable than relationship nowadays🤞🏾
2026-06-14 04:30:22
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pixelcuttinglab
user1726301363597 :
Friends for ??
2026-06-13 23:13:15
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nkgomengthabza
Jeff :
Never
2026-06-13 21:54:46
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jaymondlane5
Jay :
im friends with four females,its now been 7 years no boundaries crossed to date.
2026-06-13 23:12:58
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senzonhlonipho
Senzomkhize :
No no no no no no 🙏🙏🙏
2026-06-14 11:12:09
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markie8569
Markie :
It's a fine line. There has to be boundaries and respect between the two than it's fine
2026-06-14 02:25:08
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shes_lalah
Lalah. :
I think they can. It's in friendships where i genuinely do not think or see male friends in that light (dating) now or in future & im very vocal about it so no one is will come & try weird stuff no matter how drunk they are i will cut them off because what do you mean uyandithanda chomi?? Id be so mad. But speaking for myself mtase coz men you know they think and see things differently from us.
2026-06-13 08:31:24
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ajaymas1996
ajaymas1996 :
If there’s attraction, there’s always a chance that somebody’s gonna act on it.
2026-06-13 08:30:04
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the.voice702
Goje Mdlanyoka :
depends on what brings them together
2026-06-13 20:09:02
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spetino18
Spetinomat :
Yes, I even chose who she must date.
2026-06-13 21:29:58
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gentlemenofthejury
Username :
Yes they can not 🙋‍♂️
2026-06-13 21:49:33
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z_jam_jam
Zimasa 🇿🇦 :
No👎
2026-06-13 22:41:09
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mascomukes
Masco Mukes :
let's try it and see... 👌
2026-06-13 23:56:40
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user5746017723074
Tutuse🇿🇦🇨🇺🇷🇺 :
The answer is simple. No!
2026-06-14 16:39:21
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onekeitumetse
Noel :
it is possible if there is no attraction
2026-06-13 10:24:16
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