It feels like the moral of the story is -let avoidance go cause they really don’t give a shit in the end..
2026-06-13 18:59:21
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ProjectSweetPea :
he wins
2026-06-14 17:17:00
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. :
god why couldnt i have been avoidant
2026-06-13 20:45:00
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Ashia Nicole :
So what is the solution? These videos keep popping up on my fyp identifying the issue, but no solution! (Clearly I'm the anxious one lol)
2026-06-13 12:38:27
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TommyRobz :
I was anxious. Now I don’t care, I feel empty. It’s peaceful
2026-06-14 04:23:24
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Mary Arguijo💗 :
IDC I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THIS BS!!! My mental heath matters . All of ours does!!🙏
2026-06-14 03:06:42
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Danieza Villegas :
But what's unfair is that avoidants wants that you text first, keep them updated as if they can't get enough of you but once you do and even ask for the same effort you suddenly become too much.
2026-06-14 00:00:24
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a :
I'm anxious and i'm in this situation, please help😭
2026-06-13 12:32:25
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Roza❤️ :
Doesnt mean the avoidant isnt hurting. They usually come back when it’s too late. My friend was dragged on for a year by an avoidant and he came bk to her literally crying when he realized she moved on. It doesnt mean u should wait, but its a confirmation that u r not the only one that suffers
2026-06-13 20:11:56
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Paula :
Alon Flake explained everything about our reality, go check it out, he's a legit time traveler
2026-06-14 11:04:18
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Zarax :
This is me (anxious) but I am honestly so sad and hurt at this stage I don’t have it in me to even want connection anymore I’m just empty
2026-06-14 11:21:42
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Glow 25 :
I'm the anxious and finally at the point where Idgaf anymore and am at peace with not having the avoidant around. it's peaceful
2026-06-14 03:33:08
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Maverick82 :
Going through this right now, so basically sums it up without all this blah blah they don’t care about you. They don’t care about losing you.
2026-06-13 21:34:04
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NaimaLuxor| Lifestyle & Travel :
Such a sad situation. 💔
2026-06-14 13:43:44
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Misskaikai1 :
This is making me want to cry 🥺
2026-06-14 17:02:15
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Moodylabs :
It’s so painful!!!!! Likely ending in divorce for me. Just sitting here waiting?
2026-06-14 15:54:53
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mandapandaaa :
currently
2026-06-14 16:24:08
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traveler :
This means move on and heal urself.
2026-06-13 16:00:14
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Nozi :
Not proud at all, as an avoidant I didn’t know how much I was hurting and confusing the other person, thanks to this video…
2026-06-14 10:03:01
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Stephanie L :
That’s so fucked upped. Especially, when those two people ❤️each other.
2026-06-13 15:59:14
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Neuro Nova Kids :
They always come back soon or later
2026-06-13 20:18:54
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Mekha Ragazza :
That’s horrible.
2026-06-13 15:24:41
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random profile pictures :
ok guys let me actually explain it to you as I am a avoidance: OK it starts of the peak of the relationship we are insure we ask we care way too much sometimes we get ignored then the other partner also might say this is too much and stsrt ignoring us even more so we start being anxious and start over thinking then we go to conclusion if we dont feel anything there no need to be hurt or over think so we stsrt doing more thinks like studying going out with the boys then we go cold more cold to the point where even if we are at home we ignore our partner and perfect our ignoring to the point you think we sre actually busy then we keep doing it then it reaches to a point where we lose feelings and stop caring when we talk to our partner we just talk to them as a friend or as a bestie to keep our relationship together avoidance do not wanna hurt your feelings so we try our best to keep it but ppl will find out so eventually you will catch on so to not make a person a avoidance try to care to them and always talk to them as much as possible and take there things which hurt them seriously because it can cost you a relationship
2026-06-14 18:35:04
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