It feels like the moral of the story is -let avoidance go cause they really don’t give a shit in the end..
2026-06-13 18:59:21
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Danieza Villegas :
But what's unfair is that avoidants wants that you text first, keep them updated as if they can't get enough of you but once you do and even ask for the same effort you suddenly become too much.
2026-06-14 00:00:24
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Ashia Nicole :
So what is the solution? These videos keep popping up on my fyp identifying the issue, but no solution! (Clearly I'm the anxious one lol)
2026-06-13 12:38:27
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itsbrian2.0 :
so the Avoidant wins
2026-06-16 09:49:04
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MandyPashla :
I just blocked him because it's better to know that he is not going to call than to wait for a reply that will never come😭
2026-06-17 18:41:31
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DaChick :
And it’s crazy to me that the avoidant at the beginning of the relationship gives you the world, Text all the time, calls all the time and is quick to reply and then all of a sudden bam they pull back.
2026-07-04 22:09:33
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Roza❤️ :
Doesnt mean the avoidant isnt hurting. They usually come back when it’s too late. My friend was dragged on for a year by an avoidant and he came bk to her literally crying when he realized she moved on. It doesnt mean u should wait, but its a confirmation that u r not the only one that suffers
2026-06-13 20:11:56
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☁️BROOKE☁️ :
Where’s the part where the avoidants want the anxious back but the anxious has already moved on and the avoidant then hurts!?
2026-07-24 23:37:43
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Glow 25 :
I'm the anxious and finally at the point where Idgaf anymore and am at peace with not having the avoidant around. it's peaceful
2026-06-14 03:33:08
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Cee🌸❄️ :
Guess The grass is greener on the avoidant side🙃
2026-06-16 06:46:51
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Mary Arguijo💗 :
IDC I DONT HAVE TIME FOR THIS BS!!! My mental heath matters . All of ours does!!🙏
2026-06-14 03:06:42
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Wizefull8923 :
So the avoidant has no heart.
2026-07-27 23:11:33
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Melody :
I wish I was avoidant 😭
2026-06-17 07:40:24
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lenka :
me watching this as an anxious attached to an avoidant:
2026-06-28 04:47:30
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Gbzam_20 :
I knew there had to be some truth behind what The Hidden Life Code by Mason Beckerman was saying, now I’m more convinced of that than ever.
2026-06-15 13:28:15
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Vera :
that's why we (anxious) never get closure, confused all the time. 💔
2026-06-17 12:49:28
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I'm anxious and i'm in this situation, please help😭
2026-06-13 12:32:25
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~ :
The silence comes when the anxious has tried so hard to communicate their feelings but is consistently shut down, dismissed, ignored and forgotten. 🥺🥺🥺💜💜💜
2026-06-16 16:47:57
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semicolon :
How to even communicate when they keep pushing us away? It’s tiring 😣
2026-06-22 11:23:47
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A. :
how do you fix this asking for a friend
2026-06-15 15:05:33
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megan fox :
plz tell me wtf should i do hes avoidant and im anxious we have so much potential i dont want us to grow apart but he can go weeks without calling me i love him so much i want to fix this
2026-06-24 01:17:41
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Zarax :
This is me (anxious) but I am honestly so sad and hurt at this stage I don’t have it in me to even want connection anymore I’m just empty
2026-06-14 11:21:42
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