lowkey_deep
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🖤 :
In order to do that you anxious attachments would have to be comfortable leaving something behind
2026-06-13 17:39:57
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gogoqeen2677 :
Please do this to us. I'm avoidant and wish someone would hold me more accountable for how I can make them feel. Unfortunately I have to do the break up while they keep trying to make me stay.
2026-06-14 04:54:28
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Lizzy :
Just did it last week, 8 years together and I realised this isn’t how I want to be loved for the rest of my life
2026-06-18 14:11:02
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user7267920718686 :
As an avoidant i can tell you this is preferred.
2026-06-15 03:19:24
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trenahh :
They don’t care lmao. Just say nothing and move on.
2026-06-14 23:58:02
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Kazuha :
I did that. You’ll be free but it’ll come at the cost of feeling empty/unfulfilled/nothing.
2026-06-14 12:33:32
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Demi :
Plot twist, avoidant will tell you this
2026-06-16 18:02:34
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pleasedontfollowme :
as an avoidant my reply would be "yeah I agree all the best" we already know we can't give you what you deserve
2026-06-16 00:02:46
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ro⚡️e :
as an avoidant thank you. will be using this.
2026-06-18 00:36:07
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sunsOfus :
leaving because needs aren't met is already normal, what do you mean.
2026-06-17 19:18:47
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DookieBowser :
and they'll say "i told you in the beginning"
2026-06-14 02:22:52
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scribblystuff :
I would actually really appreciate this as an avoidant 😭 Like okay cool I had a feeling we weren’t compatible and now instead of resentment we can go look for other things
2026-06-17 00:19:02
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Moments with Alexa Claire :
As an anxious attachment leaning person and just having done this… can confirm it feels empowering as heck.
2026-06-18 01:48:52
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Joelitoo :
Yeah this really a sensitive topic for me 😂
2026-06-17 16:51:45
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🪻 :
What if he feels like he’s better off alone but wants someone to stay deep down
2026-06-18 13:46:32
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whyfeelsomuch :
anxious attachments can't commit to something like that because hard boundaries like that are incompatible with their anxiety avoidants are never going to make the effort to meet halfway because as their name implies, they AVOID the result is relationships that don't work 95% of the time (I'm anxious attachment btw)
2026-06-16 02:50:22
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jhavpianoman :
What’s the equivalent of this for anxious attached partners? Cause it’s so draining constantly validating and reassuring. I feel like we are hardly ever in a place of just enjoying each other.
2026-06-15 05:11:20
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olifka ★ :
an avoidant would agree btw
2026-06-18 16:25:22
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floral :
My deadline for him is 29th of June, if he doesn’t change by then, I won’t even send a break up message. Block.
2026-06-14 11:08:18
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Jocelyne :
I told that to my past partner in slightly different works "I need consistency and you struggle with that so for my own sake I'll be leaving this now." I still want it to be him... but I was miserable. I'm currently trying to heal my anxious attachment... maybe once we are both healed we can try again if not then I'll be a bit more ready for the next person.
2026-06-13 18:55:45
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⛧IMDOMINA⛧ :
hurts like hell but is real. we shouldn't waste each other time
2026-06-17 06:36:10
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* :
last thing I told him was “I deserve more than what you can offer me, take care” and i never opened that chat again
2026-06-15 17:26:46
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0 :
its not that easy to let go i’d be far worse without them
2026-06-14 15:58:03
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Nakedshorty :
And us avoidant people would agree and move on feelings hurt and all
2026-06-15 20:13:27
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𝒪. :
but what if we want our avoidant person?
2026-06-15 19:29:31
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