lowkey_deep
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depressedbenaffleck :
Just block fhe avoidant they will always give you hope and turn your heart into a waiting room
2026-08-03 19:02:32
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Kori :
As an avoidant pls do. Replace us from the chains because we’re too scared to hurt your feelings and say it ourselves. We know we can’t love you the way you need. GOOOO
2026-07-31 14:21:15
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jen :
crying- i just did this and i want him back NEOW
2026-08-03 17:23:09
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Jo ⋆˚࿔ :
In order to do that you anxious attachments would have to be comfortable leaving something behind
2026-06-13 17:39:57
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VibeStrike :
I agree with this wholeheartedly but the moment avoidants hit y’all with “I don’t have the capacity to love you in the way you need let’s break up” suddenly they’re the worst person ever and yall demonize it. This goes both ways.
2026-07-28 23:05:26
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gogoqeen2677 :
Please do this to us. I'm avoidant and wish someone would hold me more accountable for how I can make them feel. Unfortunately I have to do the break up while they keep trying to make me stay.
2026-06-14 04:54:28
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🔒 :
The way people r trying to defend themselves against what you’re saying when it’s clearly the healthiest way about it.. atp might as well admit they like draining people emotionally
2026-08-03 16:18:21
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trenahh :
They don’t care lmao. Just say nothing and move on.
2026-06-14 23:58:02
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miry :
I wish avoidants would just be upfront with how they don't actually want to commit instead of wasting other ppl's time and ruining their self-esteem.
2026-08-03 14:08:16
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Demi :
Plot twist, avoidant will tell you this
2026-06-16 18:02:34
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user764289764 :
as an avoidant my reply would be "yeah I agree all the best" we already know we can't give you what you deserve
2026-06-16 00:02:46
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Kazuha :
I did that. You’ll be free but it’ll come at the cost of feeling empty/unfulfilled/nothing.
2026-06-14 12:33:32
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Can I leave it empty? :
Hi, an avoidant here. Please do that. Like i dont want my love interest to be miserable because of my struggles. If that is how you feel, please say it. It opens a debate and we can finally figure out what next
2026-06-18 15:13:59
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Rinkittykat :
Thats what we'd prefer but the anxious types would never let us (or anything) go. Why cant we normalize telling anxious people "It seems you need constant reassurance about my love for you and its exhausting. I think its best we go our separate ways so you can find someone who can constantly tell you everything all the time".
2026-07-30 18:47:59
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DookieBowser :
and they'll say "i told you in the beginning"
2026-06-14 02:22:52
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nonukiriver :
Attachment style does not determine capacity to love. It affects capacity to sustain, express, receive, and organize love.
2026-06-21 08:16:58
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sunsOfus :
leaving because needs aren't met is already normal, what do you mean.
2026-06-17 19:18:47
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🪡🍩⚡️🪱 :
as an avoidant thank you. will be using this.
2026-06-18 00:36:07
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jhavpianoman :
What’s the equivalent of this for anxious attached partners? Cause it’s so draining constantly validating and reassuring. I feel like we are hardly ever in a place of just enjoying each other.
2026-06-15 05:11:20
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As an avoidant I’d say, I completely understand why you feel like that, I can’t give you what u need cause what I have been through but I hope you find someone that can cause you deserve the world, people look at avoidants as humans that want to hurt others but in reality we are people who have been hurt by another person in some form and are now just too scared to let someone in, I personally don’t mean to hurt people, it’s just easier than being hurt first
2026-06-27 20:00:46
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Tedscat :
Normalize growing with who you actually want to be with and see your future and change together
2026-06-14 13:32:52
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Jocelyne :
I told that to my past partner in slightly different works "I need consistency and you struggle with that so for my own sake I'll be leaving this now." I still want it to be him... but I was miserable. I'm currently trying to heal my anxious attachment... maybe once we are both healed we can try again if not then I'll be a bit more ready for the next person.
2026-06-13 18:55:45
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Lil'Janny :
They should just say: “I want options. I’m greedy. I don’t want to settle. I only enjoy the first few months because of the dopamine rush. I don’t actually want a real relationship with responsibility, commitment or care for another person’s feelings. I want admiration. I need validation. I want you to be obsessed with me and I want to be obsessed with you because that way I can escape everything negative in my life. I’m selfish too. I want the world to revolve around me.”
2026-06-28 10:48:46
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𝒩 🐾🍄 :
as an avoidant we'll run after you if you do this
2026-08-02 18:37:55
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