@thepolykink.therapist: This is classic miscommunication. It’s been essential for me to learn compassion and assume good faith - the other person is not trying to annoy me. In their own way, they’re trying to do what they feel is best for the relationship. This could easily turn into a war of who’s right and who’s wrong. I prefer to turn it into a team effort where we understand each other. How about you? Have you ever been in this situation? #gotitasdepoliamor #therapy #polyamory #queer #Love
My very long toxic marriage taught me not to share when I was upset about work or anything else because he would try to fix it and if I didn't take his advice I would get the silent treatment for days. but I'm working on it and getting much better
2026-06-13 18:46:42
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battle hammer/ stuffies system :
I really love this. I have a reservation with saying how I feel in the moment, because I'd rather dig into what I feel and why before I say anything. This opens the option to say I'm upset without having to immediately explain it. Thank you! 🖤
2026-06-13 17:26:00
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Ellie :
I love this. i wish I would of stumbled crossed this about three weeks ago when I really needed it. but still glad I came across it.
2026-06-14 02:03:49
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Kitty Selkie 🪷🪼 :
So I have to say everything?
2026-06-14 20:14:34
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(Sage) Maledictive Fault Lines :
Yeah this is a big one for me I try to convey in my relationships because trauma makes me very sensitive to mood and energy shifts. So I try to disclose for partners as well. Stuff like “I’m angry, but not at you: It’s a high pain day” or “I’m stressed, but I love you and you’re not the cause of this.”
2026-06-13 18:29:35
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Santi Babi :
Your content speaks to me so much, I thanks for the important work that you do!
2026-06-13 17:26:52
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Rachel Petrimoulx :
This is so great. Thank you.
2026-06-13 23:37:46
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Ginti Demonfox :
yeah, wont lie, that one hurt. i tend to keep shit to myself especially when i know theres nothing my partner can do to help. its a bad habit that im trying to break but its so god damn hard cause i also feel like if i tell my partner im burdoning them with my issues
2026-06-13 23:28:14
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