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2026-06-13 23:02:53
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Michelle :
I’m always reaching out. It’s usually me. I feel like I’m doing all the chasing
2026-06-17 18:34:12
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Elle Hodges :
i watched this twice and i have no idea whats being conveyed...😭
2026-06-14 06:01:04
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rachel :
Yeah I texted first. He accepted and further planned a date. And then canceled days before. No thanks. They can make the moves or they are low fucking effort. Next.
2026-07-17 22:48:28
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Bae Rey :
I don't know but I definitely don't think it's okay or healthy or even normal for someone who likes you to go and entire day or even weeks without texting the person they like.
I'm not saying that he has to talk to me the whole day but what about good morning and good night text.
I stopped texting first because sometimes he doesn't even get back to me.
2026-06-15 17:24:28
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Sarah :
Sydney! Update!!! I met up with my ex and it’s like we’ve never even broken up to begin with. It was amazing! The chemistry, the love, the attraction, all the good vibes. We’re taking it slow and picking up where we left off last year. Also we’re gonna schedule a second date! I’m so happy and so grateful that you exist 😭❤️(still working on myself and my cologne)
2026-06-14 06:59:49
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Lucky lefty :
Didn’t have to call me out like that
2026-06-18 01:53:45
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ThatOneNurse :
Depends on the situation. He went to dinner with daughter….. never texted they were done….. yeah….. I don’t want to interrupt HE should text me to let me know
2026-06-18 02:31:57
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Spacybee :
current guy i am building a friendship with is very responsive to approaches, meets up, very communicative but hopeless at initiative stuff and can leave it a few days between contacts. at first drove me nuts bit now its absolutely fine, in fact refreshing!
2026-06-14 17:54:34
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J◇S | beauty :
what cologne im confused aint thatperfume?
2026-06-15 20:40:27
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✨ Sailor Frw ✨ :
I’m sensing that cologne(?) has a meaning other than what I’m used to in this conversation so I’m a bit confused 😅
2026-06-14 20:06:34
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Lucidsky07 :
I’ll show I’m interested 1,2 even 3 times but if I don’t see he is interested I just walk away.
2026-06-15 17:35:49
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lindshka00 :
If he didn’t make any action to prove that he is into you (calling you, taking time to be with you, texting you, ect) than you ABSOLUTLY should NOT reach out first 🥰 have a great day everyone
2026-07-13 09:02:10
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Sunflower* :
I wish I found you a year ago
2026-06-14 01:44:04
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Alyssa :
Trying to put less meaning on texting. I was playing the whole it’s his turn to text me. Then I said screw it. I texted and he responded and gave me answers with depth.
2026-06-16 00:41:54
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SiNravo :
its more if they carry on with the conversation than initiating
2026-07-13 08:20:05
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meloncat90 :
he’s the one who asked for space, i want to text him, but i can’t go against his wishes
2026-07-14 09:33:07
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passiflora484 :
Is this also valid if he didn’t reply to the last message we sent?
2026-06-14 03:42:53
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jasey cane :
Sydney I also don’t get what people are talking about if they are texting all the time I don’t understandddddddddddd
2026-06-13 22:55:31
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Dabi Daphne Namugenyi :
Sydney I love you
2026-06-13 23:17:26
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Jwalker90 :
i send messages i dont get an answer, he just messages randomly and is interested when he talks. Ive given up with it honestly
2026-06-14 12:42:12
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comradej360 :
thanks for holding us accountable. love you girl
2026-06-14 11:59:50
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