It's not that you expected anything back. You were there because you cared. It just hurts when all that effort is met with coldness.
2026-06-14 19:40:38
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rundown :
Yea but some people are there for a short while then gone. They only chapters in ur life
2026-06-14 07:22:37
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Miss Gigi :
never expected anything back, yet I definitely saw the difference on how im spoken to and treated compared to others.. & much more..
2026-06-26 12:36:35
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Brooksie🧷 :
I’ve had the same situation with a parent. Not a great feeling
2026-06-14 09:11:30
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Chrissie 🇪🇺🇳🇱 :
Well when they did “try” to be there for me, all I got was judgement, them pushing how I should heal from my burnout. And when I told them that their way wasn’t helping me mentally I was ignored because I was upset and then told I was a bad friend because even if you are in a bad place mentally a “real” friend would take judgement 🤡. All i asked was a little less judgement and a little more support and low effort get together so now and then with food and a movie or just chilling or a walk. But guess setting that “boundary” was not ok.
2026-06-15 16:39:11
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Faye Morgan 🩷🩷 :
a real friend does not give to receive
2026-06-14 21:22:39
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Los :
I think the biggest irony for me is, how do us givers find takers so easily, but never find fellow givers who would make better friends in the first place?
2026-06-26 12:01:37
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JFunk :
Once you realize you are responsible for your own well being, you don’t need other people to do it for you.
2026-06-14 11:06:18
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Subi ✨💫 :
Silent repost
2026-07-28 05:23:48
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angelabogan :
felt that big time. moving forward for the better
2026-06-14 13:38:06
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𝑬 🇨🇦 :
This just happened to me, I pulled away. The realization hit me like a train when I went THROUGH it this year
2026-07-16 00:30:02
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Arod_1227 :
HEAVY ON THIS.
2026-06-26 13:09:43
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draaaaake🪲 :
fr
2026-06-14 05:07:49
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𝒾𝓏𝓏 :
First?
2026-06-14 04:57:20
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cloudyday964 :
Yep😂
2026-06-15 00:22:27
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J Wool :
In my case, i specifically focused on never expecting much or anything back. They needed a friend, support through some tough times. The irony is once they grew their confidence and strength, they turned it on me. Simply "i'm strong, i don't need anyone" one random day and disposed.
2026-06-26 14:48:58
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LaineyJoy :
Yes unfortunately
2026-06-14 11:57:11
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🌻Dev.Marie🌻 :
This was me in all my friendships even with family too. I kept over giving and over giving as in hey see me see me how hard I go for you this should now be reciprocated right? But it doesn’t work like that. It works in favoritism. And who people favor. And it’s exhausting and I’m so tired of it.
2026-07-12 13:37:32
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James Firebaugh :
what's my name?
2026-06-14 15:21:44
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James Firebaugh :
am I asking to much I'm looking for someone to share my life with or do you think I'm just destined to be singlebar
2026-06-14 15:15:19
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Mai100804 :
the worst part is this ain't about a friend for me it's about my family
2026-06-14 11:31:29
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James Firebaugh :
I understand that what you are saying. but how would you filling my shoes how do one level the field.
2026-06-14 15:12:51
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