@kelleydaring: Replying to @user9351665608350 #marriedcouple #emotionallabor #marriedlifebelike

valentine🖼️ :

It’s disheartening to hear that it had to get to the point of you actually almost leaving for him to change, rather than making changes when you talked to him about it earlier.

Sanguine :

I respect this. My husband lost his job and so I was the sole income earner for a while. So many of my friends told me to divorce him for not “doing his share.” Not the same thing but I was amazed at the judgement I got for treating that phase like a rough patch for both of us to get through

MormonBooksSayWhat? :

This is beautiful! So happy for you both working things out. 👏👏

🩸 moon energy :

I’m here like everyone else bc it’s gotten the point of self preservation. We have been in a silent sometimes blow up argument for days now. Bc I went to a concert with my friend. A friend that he doesn’t like bc she is vocal of her disagreement with how I have changed around him. He wants me to end my friendship bc I’m “loyal”to her not him. I’ve been realizing I let him do this in the past and it’s harmed me. So here I am listening to your story. In hopes boundaries around my needs bring back who I am and I hope he follows the example.

HoldMyPoodle :

so great that you got to take care of yourself, get the life you wanted, and keep him. People really underestimate how much thoughtful effort lifelong relationships take.

TaylorMade:D :

I need you to do a scarf tutorial. You’re so fab

catarinab05 :

Thank you for Your vídeos!

Sam :

your scarf & pearls looks fab 😍

✨️Chronically Jen ✨️ :

Your story is so similar to mine and my husband's. I also decentered him, almost divorced, and then found our way into the best relationship with each other. We've been married for 22 years.

purplecryon :

So happy for you 🩷

Lindsay :

I have absolutely loved this series. I appreciate how thoughtful you are and your ability to communicate your experiences so clearly. While anger and rage are natural and necessary, making decisions from that place instead of your values is what we typically default to. You laying out your thought process and your feelings going through this is so helpful. I’ve sent many people this series and hope you keep expanding on it. 👏

Christine | UGC :

“Changes often and grows rapidly”, this is me.

amanduhend :

That is so beautiful. I love hearing that he worked on himself and changed

indiecrystal :

What actions did he take to work on himself? Love this series

I.T.S M.A.J.E.S.T.Y.K :

Julie Callahan :

I feel like most people have issues and at times don’t treat their partner well one way or the other, but I think the biggest make or break is their willingness to hear you out and to change. Even if it’s not overnight. I’m happy for you 💗

BeccaBacon :

thanks for sharing this. im so glad he knew he had to make changes to keep you around.

BettiRaige :

It's good to hear that he stepped up. I mean, after all chose him for a reason. He's 1 in a million and that's a great reason to stay.

Lisa :

So happy you could grow together. Love is real, it just takes work! 🥰

??? :

sooo many people talking about that vera hart archetype quiz its crazy, lol. Tried it myself and the results have been overwhelmingly promising.

Audrey Knight :

Beautifully said

Carol Roughton :

I’m so glad that you listened to your body!

Kristy Mucha :

All super valid points and all very, very mature of you emotionally to recognize all of this. And your husband is obviously worth fighting for and you are too if he made all of these changes in himself at first for you but later for the both of you. It’s a very interesting topic and very rarely. Do you see people do a full 180 to make things happen. Good for y’all.

Au :

Hi, i hope you are well! Thank you for sharing this wisdom 😌 i wanted to know if you ever had been disappointed / let down by something your husband did when you clearly communicated what it is you want ….ie/ you think anniversaries are special and should be celebrated but then your partner didn’t plan anything? But then they always apologize and say they’ll do better but never change and are not consistent in showing their effort in the relationship. Any advice would be appreciated even for me - i might be missing smth here

@WhitttMarie | for the girls ✨ :

Loved this series!!!!