this is too controversial for most people to accept. however I agree and I wish I knew more people who think like this. it’s very lonely
2026-06-14 19:24:11
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esther :
mhmm that’s why deconstructing the nuclear family is so important
2026-06-14 19:01:32
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Safiya | 🌻💛 :
This is something I've been thinking about for YEARS!!
2026-06-14 16:42:53
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IMMATERIA: Notes + Hot Takes :
I been saying this
2026-06-14 16:14:37
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Prettykitty :
Whew!! So true 💯
2026-06-14 16:23:08
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Beehottie 🐝 :
I came to this conclusion in therapy. the nuclear family must be destroyed -- they isolate you and you're stuck dealing with BS until you're finally able to separate yourself. it never dawned on them that I'd be able to solely provide for myself one day
2026-06-14 16:42:19
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Space Monkey Jesus🦧 :
Families and communities*. This is why I'm suspicious of anything related to 'collectivism'. Let's pool our resources without trying to impose ourselves or our thinking/subjective 'morals' onto each other✌️
2026-06-14 18:22:17
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nina :
this is exactly what it likes being a child of anyone who works in healthcare 🥀
2026-06-14 20:06:24
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Space Monkey Jesus🦧 :
Literally noone in this world should have any say at all about what you do with your life. The only exception to this is people you have voluntarily entered into an agreement with 🤝
2026-06-14 18:27:39
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Soulmaths :
Cutting my whole family off is the best thing I ever did. I realise now I didn’t even love them. How can I love people who don’t know how to love? I’ve spent my whole life healing from stuff they’ve done to me. I only felt an obligation towards them, it wasn’t love. So glad to be free from those shackles and have peace.
2026-06-14 18:59:03
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Summer :
This was like the best fucking way I ever heard anyone explain this
2026-06-14 16:49:25
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darkwizarddisani :
and the SECOND you call it out, you the devil who needs casting on 🫢😩😩
2026-06-14 19:39:27
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loukross :
This is the nuclear family by design. The patriarch having all the power is such an unnatural and contrived model, the only way to sustain it is with some degree of psychological abuse.
2026-06-14 18:01:59
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leahlos :
Some friend groups seem cult like. Like when there is a clear “leader”
2026-06-14 18:47:35
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Banjo Tiki :
Thank you for putting something I've been thinking for years into better words than I could!!! I inmediately knew that there is something extremely wrong with the fact that my old man has a problem with me having a bank account he doesnt have access to and that he treats the fact that I make my own decisions and have my own thoughts and opinions as some form of crazy rebellion
2026-06-14 18:31:14
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unfortunateflypeasant114 :
extremely based
2026-06-14 17:21:05
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kwkhash :
Thisss feels like we had similar upbringing and back then the closer I was to my family the more distant I was from myself.
2026-06-14 20:07:36
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Abisai Iileka :
Was literally thinking about this, this morning and yesterday.
2026-06-14 18:12:51
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Chris Marcel :
🤏🏽🤏🏽🤏🏽
2026-06-14 16:26:36
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✿ ᴄʜᴇᴇᴋʏᴋɪʟɪ ✿ :
“Black sheep” don’t let anyone in your toxic family cult gaslight you! You know what you went through!
2026-06-14 19:40:27
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conor :
teaaa
2026-06-14 17:01:37
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ElizabethBestieBoss :
so true 💓 me 2
2026-06-14 16:47:03
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