@girlthepoet: #creatorsearchinsights The biggest mistake people make after an avoidant attachment breakup is focusing on getting their ex back instead of getting themselves back. If you want an avoidant attachment style ex to regret losing you, stop chasing closure, stop proving your worth, and start investing that energy into yourself. Heal your nervous system. Build a life that doesn’t revolve around their inconsistency. Improve your health, your confidence, your friendships, your goals, and your happiness. The irony is that avoidant attachment styles often expect you to stay emotionally available while they pull away. When you become unavailable because you’re genuinely moving forward, that’s when your absence becomes real. The goal isn’t revenge. The goal is becoming so focused on your own growth that whether they regret losing you becomes irrelevant #avoidantattachment #avoidantattachmentstyle #attachmentstyles #phantomex

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