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nyirah | OTDS-III :
people who are not chronically single do not understand this….at all
2026-06-15 13:12:42
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Purp💜🐉 :
it’s so sad because growing up i always looked forward to love
2026-06-15 00:55:25
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Cheyenne :
I’ve been a late bloomer with almost everything, and I think I’m grieving both my past and my future. It feels like I missed the early dating experiences that were supposed to teach me how to do it later.
2026-06-15 02:45:25
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romiegigi :
As a person who’s chronically single and never experienced a relationship, I hate when someone says “just focus on yourself”… like I’m not already doing that 🥲
2026-06-15 18:24:18
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leilani :
That’s why I’m a reader. For those couple of hours at a time, I’m giddy.
2026-06-15 03:50:24
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vv💫 :
for me it's the infantalising effect of it too. I will always feel like I'm not a real adult because of it
2026-06-16 18:19:15
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alex :
music don’t even hit me the same as others cause i can’t ever relate 😪😭
2026-06-16 01:33:24
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Big Susie :
Literally discussed this on substack. You grieve something that almost feels promised.
2026-06-15 03:36:55
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Kennedi ᥫ᭡ :
I can’t see myself in a relationship anymore. I feel like an unlovable monster.
2026-06-15 22:06:01
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déja :
ngl i’ll never be at peace with it
2026-06-16 02:17:30
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ephiem :
I feel like the longer you go without romantic love you start to realize how many people don’t actually have happy, healthy, balanced relationships. I no longer feel like I’m missing out
2026-06-16 04:37:28
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Nessavedder :
And everyone says once you stop looking, it’ll happen. bullshit
2026-06-15 13:31:07
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🫐Mia🫐 :
It’s so hard especially seeing it come to easily to others when you want it so bad. It feels personal like what do I not deserve love? I guess so
2026-07-27 03:06:00
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s :
did you guys know at 17 that this was gonna be you? bc i’m 17 and i feel like im heading in this direction😭 ive never had a talking stage or anything
2026-07-26 05:32:55
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talar :
im lonely and so tired of always being alone and tired. I just want someone to love me. I want someone to choose me for once. why am i never good enough? I know im fat, im working on it but it hurts. i want to be loved so badly and I'm grieving knowing at 26 that I will never happen
2026-07-26 03:14:59
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kiki_543210 :
I have no faith in most men.
2026-07-25 21:56:16
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𝙼𝚒𝙺𝚊𝚢𝚕𝚊 :
i find myself crying when i’m watching a show or reading a book a realizing i’ve never actually been love platonically or romantically
2026-07-25 22:23:44
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Day :
then add seeing your peers being engaged or married it’s like whoa. what did I do wrong?
2026-06-15 20:06:58
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elina ⚓︎ :
my problem is that i‘ve also never had an actual crush on anyone irl, if i „do“, i basically just find them aesthetically attractive and love the attention they give me, but that‘s it. and if someone shows an interest in me, i immediately back up (maybe that‘s on avoidant attachment idk). i love the idea of being in a relationship, but at the same time idk if i truly want it and it makes me sad. i also hate it that my slavic family pressures me into finding a boyfriend and tell me that it‘s not normal that i‘m already 20 and that i‘ve never been in a relationship, such remarks make me feel miserable😭
2026-06-18 11:29:44
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>_Avi_< :
having romance/love be the main focus of most movies, shows, books, etc. has made it feel like ive missed out on a life that was promised
2026-06-15 07:08:57
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Nani.punani :
All I ask is if it’s not for me then God take away the desire PLEASE 😭
2026-06-15 10:39:46
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Coff33Kat :
Also no one tells you that the longer you remain single, the more time your brain has to reform the idea of romantic partnership into an inconvenience or an addition to your life. It’s not just mourning a love that never arrived, it’s mourning that you no longer want or desire love in the same way you did before.
2026-06-15 18:39:43
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chaniitelleee :
I think people are too optimistic at times. “Oh it’ll happen!” Reality is sometimes it doesn’t. Sometimes it doesn’t work out how you want it to. And I’m so tired of being called negative when I’m just living in my reality.
2026-06-15 18:49:24
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