Snottipop
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Monday 15 June 2026 18:30:00 GMT
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Nessie :
as a chronically late person, I can vouch I would never ever tell a friend they were being self important for asking me to be on time. anyone who talks to you like that is not your friend.
2026-06-16 02:14:35
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Snailgenie :
Stopped for the awesome visuals, stayed for the fire advice.
2026-06-15 19:59:39
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🍁Scotty🍁 :
Uggg I’m someone who is always chronically late, I need to start doing better; my friends are always nice about it but this is probably how they really feel 😭 thanks for the perspective 😔
2026-06-16 13:40:30
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B.You :
I need to needle point “stop arguing with reality” on a pillow. Thank you!
2026-06-16 04:28:40
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Sam 🌈🩷 :
You don’t need to change people you need to learn what your non negotiables are and realize when you are incompatible with someone. It’s Ok! People can have different needs and it’s not a reflection on either of you.
2026-06-16 18:50:10
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SuzySwitch :
I am perpetually late. I've accepted its part of my DNA. so I lie to myself about time(if an appt is at 1030 I write down as 10)and have asked all my friends to do the same. planning a party at 7? tell me 630 and ill be on time. if im "early" ill just lend a hand at setting up.
2026-06-16 14:06:08
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Sauce Dude :
Grace is for mistakes not patterns
2026-06-16 19:56:11
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bahozhogoo :
Yup, sometimes it’s not a full friend breakup but realizing you can’t rely on them to show up (in time) changes the dynamics. I used to try to cook for people all the time. Now, either it’s more lowkey/we meet at a park. And the friends that do consistently do show up or show up on time get fed well.
2026-06-16 12:36:21
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Seraph_Sans :
this editing is so cute and I needed the message. ❤️✨
2026-06-15 22:08:56
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Princess Paula McCartney :
I'm not saying this is causation, buuuut at 26 I applied this to my dating life (stop arguing with reality) and met the actual love of my life that year. I stopped wasting my own time and it made him easier to spot because I could see that he was trying, changing and growing while never ever making me feel guilty for setting boundaries or having feelings 👀 I'm 34, married for 5 years and my time and needs are very respected now!
2026-06-16 09:57:22
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GlitterSlinger :
I had a late problem but then a friend said when you’re late I feel like you’re not respecting my time…wasn’t late again bc damn girl sorry
2026-06-16 16:52:30
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Vulpine🦊💛 :
Honestly I needed this video 😭 my emotional dysregulation really effects this a lot and it's been such a struggle to figure out if someone is actually being mean to me VS my brain just did not like the response for whatever reason. I think no matter what it's important to be kind to yourself, but sometimes it really is you gotta work on your own problems and you can only do so much to work with others.
2026-06-16 19:30:04
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Karnately :
That’s when you set a boundary, “show more respect for my time or we need to stop using My apartment as our meeting place.”
2026-06-16 19:27:58
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catmanfangirlboy :
Also, like my boyfriend is late sometimes but when he is, he constantly communicates about it and it’s like that’s the difference. Some people are late because life is hard but they try to let you know what’s going on. That’s respect.
2026-06-16 15:26:09
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Ralph :
this is a really good video and lesson. Also, your editing is so cool🔥🔥🔥
2026-06-15 18:34:44
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Big Nasty😌 :
Instant follow
2026-06-19 23:19:06
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crabmeatcute :
BRO your work is so strong, writing and visuals and style ahhhh I can’t believe you don’t have a million followers yet but I’m
2026-06-16 04:20:35
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mallory🎀 :
genuinely needed to see this today because i started to question if i was setting too many boundaries with my bff bc i want to believe it’s my fault and not her disrespecting me
2026-06-17 21:11:00
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cxdxncelab0rat0ry :
and its okay to stop being friends with someone that’s what i had to learn
2026-06-17 15:41:05
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lauren.vorreiter :
I constantly say, “I need to deal with the world as it is not as I wish it was” and that helps a lot
2026-06-16 22:27:24
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sundriedsmile :
When a duck quacks, we don’t say it’s an elephant. 🙃
2026-06-16 12:33:26
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Angel_Heart01 :
exactly I can be late sometimes but I would never call them over dramatic or selfish for ME BEING THE ONE LATE?!
2026-06-16 14:13:18
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SadBunnyArt 🏳️⚧️🖤💛🩷💜 :
Its hard to not gaslight myself when i feel theres an issue im having with friends like suddenly the information I have feels like I made it up and its based on how I feel and not what really happened ☠️. I recently got a stronger backbone and it feels like the friends are dwindling as I stand up for myself so this message is needed for me 😭 i love the editing too 🥰
2026-06-16 09:29:03
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