@stevenmilano: allow yourself to be the VILLAIN in ALL of their SOB STORIES. and be SHAMELESS DOING IT. 🗝️

Spanknastyfresh :

This! Because you dislike them a little more each time, you learn more each time. It’s a process. For sure.

anouchkatk :

LISTEN !! THIS. IS. NOT. YOUR. SIGN. You can learn as much by staying silent and keep having a romanticized story in your head (as you’ve always done). Stay there. Keep learning how to live WITHOUT that dopamine or oxytocin. Thanks.

Marbie :

3 years of hot and cold inconsistent behavior..I’m tired of sacrificing my emotional health for his comfort

✨ :

Yo my algorithm is cooking me today

Stacy Hayden Gonzalez :

THANK YOU cuz im not listening anyways 🥰🥰

⏪im a tiktok moderator⁉️ 😁 :

i did. i told everyone : i have to return , there are more lessons there. i did receive those lessons and answers. after the dynamic changed ,i still love and miss her. but i am no longer as clingy as i was. no longer her savier. the door is open ,she has to walk through it.

L L E N E L :

Took me 4 years but now I know better 🥰

mellow michelle :

I did leave however I am not done, and neither is he I just know it 😒😟

Stargazer 🇨🇦 :

Took me 3 years! But I finally walked away for good. I learned a lot about myself and am working on the parts that need healing.

joshuastarks :

thank you, took me so much shame till i realized this and have felt so much better every since

Laura :

🤣🤣 respectfully..

Lynn🪬🇵🇷 :

This! Finally a way to explain it the way I have been trying to! Thanks! 🙏🏾

myfavouritethings :

Yes thank you, we’re about to break up and i feel a bit ashamed to share it with my friends cause i think it’s not the end of it..

BWEEVA❤️🇨🇦❤️ :

❤️🙏🙏❤️Absolutely! Thank you

✨SyLentNoiseCleanse :

Yaaaass

M.M :

lol

SummerSpice💖 :

Absolutely 🥰

A Muse :

🤌🏽🤌🏽🤌🏽

Missy :

Aligomez12464927482 :

sooo many people talking about that vera hart archetype quiz its crazy, lol. Tried it myself and the results have been overwhelmingly promising.

𝖘𝖚𝖘𝖎𝖊 𝖗𝖊𝖆𝖉 :

I’ll never regret the long paragraphs, the silent forgiveness, the second and third chances. Ever. I know they received all of it. Whether they accepted it is a different story. At least I know I did everything I could.

. :

It's not worth the physical pain but I can't stop. I hate the crying and the panic but I miss that man so fucking much. He's all I ever had . I know I look desperate but I need him 😔😔.

Hellena :

I did. I went back a million times and everytime I loved him more and he treated me worst. One day I suddenly decided I had enough. Now idgaf.

A :

Lol. Now that I’m healed. This sounds like bad advice but when I was deep in it I understand. But there is something about choosing yourself that will always win