@themoderndreamgirl: None of this is a compromise and if it feels like one then DONT DO IT. That is always an option. Ladies you’ve just been gaslit into believing relationships are hard work and require sacrifice because if you did not believe that then 99% of men would be SINGLE Click the link in my bio to get your relationship reality guide or to send me your personal questions through email 🌸 #themoderndreamgirl #women #men

katequags :

my ex said, "I think about you in every decision I make, I think about how it'll make you react." React, not feel.

crissyvazquez :

That’s why idc if my man happy or not

rebel sham :

yeeeeeah tik tok keep me here!!

Audacious Andi :

I genuinely dont know if i wanna get married bc i havent seen a single happy marriage…. And its so disheartening

🥀 :

i sent this to him wish me luck

Hehe Hoohoo :

One time my ex said that he didn’t have to spend time with me, but that he chose to. I responded by saying “right and I don’t have to be in a relationship with you” and he didn’t like that response 🤷‍♀️

Katie Joy Allen :

I tried to be friends with my ex after we broke up and he literally said "I'm so happy I don't have to be nice to you because you're not my girlfriend anymore"

Annie K :

This is why the quality i look for is selflessness. So ive been single for six years

BB_girl :

As a teenager girl i genuinely have no idea what I’m going to do when i grow up. I have this feeling that I’m never going to find someone to be happy with. Even with friends, everyone just wants the upper hand for less and I’m just so done. 😕

Mimi :

You just expanded my brain during this divorce…

Arky :

I never frame a relationship as compromise, I call it collaboration, purely because people perceive the term compromise as having to reluctantly give something up

the_mckenziest :

The way you understand these things in the very fine details and also the big picture - not to mention how well you explain it all? You do words good 💜

shalysssaaaaa :

meanwhile the compromises in our house consist of my husband not going to his jiu jitsu class & staying with the little kids & instead it’s me taking our older son to his class so i can have an hour to do nothing by myself & breathe

ً :

You are literally so spot on. Wow.

EmilyXOXO :

You should most definitely have a podcast.

chartysworld :

I love the way you think

☆Void☆ :

my brain just gained a wrinkle

syyael :

This is why I am perfectly fine being single and just investing in my family and friendships

user5496302284927 :

I’m blessed because I love my wife, I like her company, want to spend time w her no matter what we are doing, errands, shopping, didn’t matter as long as we were together.

high.paige :

Mawadda :

let me go ahead and stay single