@daniellejmitchell: Getting our amniocentesis results at our Maternal Fetal Medicine growth scan, I knew it was bad when they put us in an empty room, with nothing but a couch, a chair for the doctor and a side table with a box of tissues. They went over all the new findings on our scan, she is now <1 percentile (from the 6 percentile), 6-7 confirmed heart defects, her organs growing on the outside and 2 new findings on her brain, then they went into our amniocentesis results, where we were told her condition and the cells it is affecting based on the defects found in the scans are not compatible with life, we were told she was trying, and she has been fighting but she is a very sick little baby, with the new findings on the brain it’s something they cannot fix. We have two options, 1 carry to term or a termination for medical reasons, the decision is completely up to us… how as parents do you make an impossible decision? (I am sharing because I want to, I’ve never felt so alone and scared in this path, I’m choosing not to sit and suffer in silence, alone, but to grieve and heal out loud because this is my real life)

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daniellejmitchell
Danielle Mitchell :
I am sharing because I want to, I’ve never felt so alone and scared on this path, I’m choosing not to sit and suffer in silence, but to grieve and heal out loud because this is my real life, thank you for allowing me space todo that.
2026-06-15 04:28:29
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adelle.johnsen
Adèlle🇸🇪 :
Omphalocele? My daughter has it. If you want to talk please dm me 💕
2026-06-15 21:15:49
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ccourtneyjayne
COURTNEY JAYNE :
She may not be compatible in this life, but she’ll be waiting for you in the next 🤍 all she’s ever known is love. Nana Sandy will keep her safe just like she did with you.
2026-06-15 05:14:19
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sarahvictoriaugc
sarahvictoriaugc :
Right now she is in the most peaceful place. She's listening to her mamas heartbeat. Her sisters chaos in the background. And her daddy's protection. All she knows is love. No matter what happens. It's all she will know. How much she is loved. As hard as this journey ahead is going to be. She will always be apart of you.
2026-06-15 06:52:53
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z.o.e.k.c
Zoe 🎀 (Cancer’s Version) :
She may not be compatible with life but she is compatible with life within you, and within your family, and she will live on in all of your memories. And every time you think about her or speak her name she will live on. I’m so sorry Danielle. I imagine by sharing this you are helping SO many people who will experience what you are going through right now. I think you willing to share and be so open and honest in your grief is extremely admirable. ❤️
2026-06-15 05:41:17
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kellseeeeeeeeeydub
khdub™ 🌸🐚 :
she is just too perfect for earth mama 🥹 I know this doesnt help, but im sending you all so much love ❤️
2026-06-15 04:58:13
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jorjahorley
Jorja Horley :
The magpies singing in the background 🥺🥺🥺🥺 sending you all the love 🥺
2026-06-15 04:42:00
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lazygirlcrochet
lazygirlcrochet :
i've never commented on one of your videos before, always watched and cheered on quietly but i'm so sorry danielle. no woman should have to make the choice you have to make, i am so so sorry x
2026-06-15 04:33:19
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tee.0310
Chris :
do you have a chance for a 3rd option where they induce labour and allow her to be born however she decides and then do comfort cares if required? I know not all hospitals are comfortable with this option
2026-06-15 10:03:57
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mumma.gigi2
Georgie :
You do what feels right for you. I’m a midwife & the one piece of advice I would give is don’t do what is ‘expected’ of you, do what feels right in your heart. She is still your baby, it is your body, do what is best for you. & grieve however you need to, when you need to. You can still grieve while pregnant, grieve the life she could have had. & make sure no matter what, that you keep all the memories of her, hand & footprint, photos etc xx
2026-06-15 05:05:40
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dani.russell
Danielle Russell :
Nanna sandy is up there ready to take care of her 💗🪽 thinking of you every day
2026-06-15 05:56:01
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mms07040
m&ms :
What ever decision you make is the right decision for you and your family. We all know that no matter the choice or the circumstances they your little girl is so so soo loved and lucky to have 2 amazing parents and a big sister to love her while she’s with yoh
2026-06-15 04:41:28
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bec.walker_
Bec Walker :
You are so strong, I love you guys so much. Sending all my love Mitchy ❤️
2026-06-15 04:35:45
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paige.sshona
Paige 🫶🏻 :
If there’s anything we can do- contribute to a go fund me, purchase off a gift registry to help you thru such a difficult time, meal train ect reach out. When one mama cries, we all do ❤️‍🩹
2026-06-15 05:52:55
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tarakiller
Tara Killer :
Saying not compatible with life isn’t the best way to put it. Because she is compatible with life. Shes just born with a condition…
2026-06-15 07:04:25
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homan031
Elizabeth :
Name her
2026-06-15 04:45:15
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kaylaraspin28
Kayla - Raising Aubs and Oaks :
It’s never an easy decision 🥺 take your time and spend this time with loved ones❤️
2026-06-15 04:31:00
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mollie.fahey
molliefaheyradenic ❤️ :
All she’s known is warmth and love. And you’ll continue to show her that no matter what happens ❤️All mothers are with you
2026-06-15 04:49:38
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abbyshortall
Abby Shortall :
I went through fetal medicine with my boy, and I can totally relate to the feeling of wanting them to stop finding more abnormalities. Sometimes it can feel like they’re talking about a statistic rather than the precious child you’re carrying in your womb. For me personally, being able to continue the pregnancy and let the baby decide when it was their time, rather than having to make that decision myself, brought me some peace. It’s such an impossible choice that no mother ever wants to face. She is so loved, and whatever you decide, she knows it comes from a place of love and wanting what is best for her. 💕
2026-06-15 07:55:41
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_.jeda._
💕🫰🏼Jeda🫰🏼💕 :
My favorite saying when my daughter passed at 41 weeks stillborn is "for 9 months we shared a heartbeat" for now u and her share a heart beat and u are her home. Sending strength and love 🩷🩷
2026-06-15 10:31:28
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livmontgomery.15
Liivv🩷 :
Whatever decision you make, is the right one for you and your family. You know what is best for you all. Sending you all so much strength and love. When one mum cries, we all cry 🩷
2026-06-15 04:47:09
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tor.294
Its-a-calais :
certainly do not to give any of us on SM any sort of justification or anything whatever towards YOUR decision. we are all here to support you girl. Whichever way you decide she is still apart of you. she is and will always be loved no matter what. I know she has some co editions but if you decided to terminate the pregnancy get support from bears of hope. They are an amazing bunch of humans there support before during and after is nothing short of AMAZING. supportive friendly the works. sympathetic aswell. they just treat you with utmost gratitude amd respect. The magpies in the back tho 🥺 There listening 🫶
2026-06-15 05:06:16
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britneygore_
Britney_gore :
💓💓💓 you’re so strong mumma, we’re all here for you xx
2026-06-15 04:28:38
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its_me.hi
meg :
It’s no coincidence that Nanny Sandy went when she did. She is getting ready to care for your beautiful girl 🥰
2026-06-15 05:59:47
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hypehouseemojis__
hype house.💖 :
The mums here just want you to know that whatever decision you make, there is no right or wrong choice. Sometimes life places us at crossroads where neither path comes with certainty, and all we can do is choose what feels right for our heart in that moment. Be gentle with yourself through this process. Every choice teaches us something, helps us grow, and leads us to where we're meant to be. Trust yourself and know that whatever you decide, it will be the right decision for you and your family! Most importantly, remember that you don't have to face it alone. You're followers support you & respect your choice.
2026-06-15 05:06:40
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