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I thought I was being accommodating, caring, helpful, and thoughtful. What I learned today is that for me, this was actually a program I learned in childhood. The program was simple: ✨If you want to be loved, you must be needed. And if you’re only loved when you’re needed, then your value becomes tied to what you can give, what you can do, and who you can be for everyone else. This one was sneaky because I genuinely thought I had already worked through it. But the word that came up today was self-abandonment. Basically— trying to do things, say things, and be someone you’re not in order to make other people comfortable so they’ll love you, accept you, approve of you, or stay. The flip side of that? The reason you’re trying so hard to earn their love is because somewhere deep down, you don’t believe you’re worthy of taking up space exactly as you are… And that realization cut like knives. Today I had a choice— I could try to be someone I’m not in order to preserve someone else’s approval of me. Or I could stand firmly in who I am and risk disappointing them… For the first time, I chose me 🥹 I said, “I’m sorry, but that’s just not who I am. If that’s a requirement for this relationship, it’s not something I can uphold.” 🔥Whew🔥 And I’d be lying if I said there weren’t tears involved— a lot… Because feeling worthy enough to take up space simply because I exist—not because of what I can do for others—is still something I’m learning. Here’s the thing… The programs running your life are not conscious. We don’t wake up one day and decide to abandon ourselves. We learn strategies that helped us feel safe, loved, accepted, or needed… then carry them into adulthood without realizing they’re still there. For the last two years, I’ve been peeling back layer after layer, belief after belief, asking myself: Is this actually who I am? Or is this just a program I’ve been running? Every layer I remove makes more room for the new version of me—the one who knows her worth and unapologetically takes up space because, well… we’re all worthy of that 🤍  Follow @makyla.wendroth for more real 💩 😘 so happy you found me, your long lost bestie🫶🏼
I thought I was being accommodating, caring, helpful, and thoughtful. What I learned today is that for me, this was actually a program I learned in childhood. The program was simple: ✨If you want to be loved, you must be needed. And if you’re only loved when you’re needed, then your value becomes tied to what you can give, what you can do, and who you can be for everyone else. This one was sneaky because I genuinely thought I had already worked through it. But the word that came up today was self-abandonment. Basically— trying to do things, say things, and be someone you’re not in order to make other people comfortable so they’ll love you, accept you, approve of you, or stay. The flip side of that? The reason you’re trying so hard to earn their love is because somewhere deep down, you don’t believe you’re worthy of taking up space exactly as you are… And that realization cut like knives. Today I had a choice— I could try to be someone I’m not in order to preserve someone else’s approval of me. Or I could stand firmly in who I am and risk disappointing them… For the first time, I chose me 🥹 I said, “I’m sorry, but that’s just not who I am. If that’s a requirement for this relationship, it’s not something I can uphold.” 🔥Whew🔥 And I’d be lying if I said there weren’t tears involved— a lot… Because feeling worthy enough to take up space simply because I exist—not because of what I can do for others—is still something I’m learning. Here’s the thing… The programs running your life are not conscious. We don’t wake up one day and decide to abandon ourselves. We learn strategies that helped us feel safe, loved, accepted, or needed… then carry them into adulthood without realizing they’re still there. For the last two years, I’ve been peeling back layer after layer, belief after belief, asking myself: Is this actually who I am? Or is this just a program I’ve been running? Every layer I remove makes more room for the new version of me—the one who knows her worth and unapologetically takes up space because, well… we’re all worthy of that 🤍 Follow @makyla.wendroth for more real 💩 😘 so happy you found me, your long lost bestie🫶🏼

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