@lovelessonswithsarah: 1)🔥 HE GIVES YOU THE BARE MINIMUM FIRST— short replies. Low effort. No real planning. He's watching: 👉will you accept crumbs? 👉or will you pull back? If you entertain it, you've set the standard. Logic: whatever you tolerate becomes your normal. If you entertain scraps, that's all he's gonna hand out. 2.)🔥 HE DELAYS REPLIES TO SEE IF YOU'LL CHASE - Man goes quiet for hours.... Maybe days innit. He is not busy — he's testing your ting, seeing if you'll start: 👉double texting 👉panicking 👉messaging him every 5 minutes like your mind depends on him If you start moving desperate, he clocks it. —people respect what doesn't beg for attention. 3.)🔥 HE OBSERVES HOW YOU TALK ABOUT YOURSELF — Little lines like 👉"I ain't that special" 👉"I just go with whatever " He's listening cause however you see yourself sets your value in his eyes. —people don't raise your value, they follow it. 4.)🔥 HE GOES HOT AND COLD TO SEE IF YOU'LL LOOSE YOUR HEAD -— All in one day, gone the next. He's watching if you'll spiral, start panicking, move mad. -if your mood depends on him, he's got power innit. 5.)🔥 HE WITHOLDS EFFORT TO SEE IF YOU'LL OVER-COMPENSATE—- He's slacking, — you pick up the slack. You initiate more texting, more energy and more doing —if you do the work for him, you've not only become the man, you've made him super comfortable so why would he ever step up? 6.)🔥 HE WATCHES HOW FAST YOU FORGIVE NONSENSE- Half-hearted apology: "sorry innit, you know how it is...." Do you fold? Or stand firm? - zero consequences = repeated disrespects. 7.)🔥 HE USES SUBTLE PRAISES TO REINFORCE WIFEY BEHAVIOR— "Ah bless you for doing the laundry" "Proper thanks for doing the dishes" Listen!! He's not praising do real effort. He's training you to do it again. The moment you normalize these, you train them to expect it. — Attention and validations are the carrots; boundaries are the reins. Don't let him wag the carrot and run the cart, fam. Listen besties, Men test, watch, and vibe you out —your reactions write your value. Keep your standards locked. Like, follow and share your thoughts in the comments section below ⬇️ #viral #foryou #Fyp#fypviralシ #trend

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