I did this, and I’ve learned not to blame them, but NEVER let myself get to burnout again. It wasn’t good for anyone.
2026-06-16 22:25:42
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Shelleyish :
I realized today I hadn't seen any of your videos in a long time. I'm so happy you're still making videos. Don't know why they removed you from my feed but I won't miss any more 🥰🥰
2026-06-16 22:30:57
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ashlee :
How do we sign up for the workshop 😥
2026-06-15 16:28:10
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🌱Alana🪴 :
I’m not sure if you made a video on this already, but my bf is constantly telling me I need to take accountability and communicate to him. I try but I don’t know how to make him see that. I also see so many videos catering to the person who is the only one changing but I’m trying to do the change 🫠idek if this made sense
2026-06-17 00:55:50
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Maria Waldren881 :
where I am sitting right now in my marriage.....
2026-06-16 13:13:55
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Christy P :
Same
2026-06-16 16:55:59
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NAV :
I always put myself last
2026-06-15 21:05:40
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IG: cheriel_abenis :
Sacrificing everything for someone makes you lose yourself. Always have balance! It hurts to be left nothing of yourself or forgetting who you actually are, you should be your own person, not someone you pretend to be just to seem “perfect” for someone who can’t even give you the “bare minimum”
2026-06-15 14:55:12
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Marleen :
Yup! I did this for 24 years and know that he left, I am learning all this and learned that it was a gift he gave me by leaving me. I love this new chapter in my life! Don’t take me wrong I had 3 years to get here but know I am so blessed to be learning what I need to do for me to not be in the same situation again. 🥰
2026-06-15 16:11:47
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Jessa Lynn 🦋 :
I needed this now more than ever!!!!
2026-06-15 16:02:47
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longislandladyshops :
I did this w me first husband and had to leave. And now I’m w a partner whom I don’t need to do that and sometimes I have to remind myself that I don’t have to wear myself out- we are in tvis together.
2026-06-16 01:30:32
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JVH :
I did a lot for this relationship, but they denied it and insisted I wasn’t. It was the most maddening experience of my life. I started Self abandoning by questioning everything about myself moving forward. I’m still trying to heal from it, and the relationship is over.
2026-06-16 01:47:55
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professor_joe :
I have a long history of this. Self-abandonment. I absolutely struggle to accept anything for myself or do things for myself.
2026-06-15 14:54:24
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Vilyana :
For over 20years and he didn’t care about me
2026-06-16 22:05:04
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Kate OMahony • The Gap Coach :
Yes. And it doesn't stop at relationships — we abandon ourselves every time we wait to feel "enough" before we act. Accommodating the world instead of honoring ourselves.Worth was never the thing missing. The waiting was.
2026-06-17 03:31:54
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liebchentherottweiler :
I became who they needed me to be- ugh. To my detriment and self degradation. & no more!
2026-06-16 00:55:27
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Glowing Girl :
I did this! In both friendships and romantic relationships! But once I worked on my own self esteem and learned my self worth and no longer do this - but I do remember how this kind of burnout of not even being number one in my own life felt.
2026-06-16 02:35:12
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Charisse :
YES❤️💪
2026-06-15 16:28:15
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HaveTheDayYouDeserv3 :
it took me six years to burn out. hopefully never again.
2026-06-15 22:14:12
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ReMarkablyChoosen :
This is so profound!! Thanks for sharing
2026-06-17 11:18:09
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mjfromjax :
It’s more than pouring from an empty cup, you need to give from your overflow while maintaining a full cup 💯💯💯
2026-06-16 20:01:16
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Sacred Holistics :
Bottom line here….
2026-06-16 13:45:25
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_call_me_beans_ :
I think love means that you would sacrifice everything for them but someone that loves you wouldn't ask you to so and vice versa
2026-06-17 16:03:49
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