@_jen_hamilton_: The situation is so complex. We both are hurting, broken people. And I love him so much. Please send love and healing vibes his way but do not reach out or talk bad about him. It’s my fault for bringing it here. I was just hurting and looking for comfort. So much regret.

mamatapp1990 :

Fill Jenns Jar 🫙 with hearts !! 💕 I'll start!

Chloe :

You are owed every bit of the kindness you put into the world ♥️

Abby🌿 :

hey love, it will absolutely not seem like it now, or even in a year (i hope it's sooner) but I promise you, you are going to be okay. you are such a light, and I am so sorry you both are hurting. I've been there, my darling, give yourself time and grace. all the grace. I traveled a lot, walked a lot, screamed and cried to the trees and rivers, and then sat in silence. I started planning things just for me, oh im going to take myself to buy an outfit and dinner, just me. you deserve privacy, youre a human being, and nobody should be attempting to capitalize off your pain, that's gross. sending you all the love, until the sunshine can come back 💛

Princess Peach 🆘🇺🇸🚫🧊 :

Jen: I found out 7 days ago my partner of 10 years is buying a house and moving out. Your video literally let me feel normal for a minute to see someone else going through it at the same time as me. I pray we both heal and know our worth.

Krysta 📚🖤 :

We do owe you privacy. You’re a person before you’re a content creator. I’m sorry people are trying to capitalize off of your pain.

BrokeBackNurse :

Hi Jen Hamilton! I came looking for you a few days ago to say "thank you." You weren't ready for me then. Now, I'm back and hope you're in a better place. Thank you. I have been a RN for almost 30 years. I started in a L&D unit that averaged 400+ deliveries each month. We were the only hospital that accepted Medicaid. In the late 90s, Moms didn't come in with birth plans or expectations. Births were textbook for the most part. Most were a happy occasion. Some were not. Almost all were a predictable dance choreographed by the OBGYN - whether vaginal or Cesarean. Fast forward through my career of L&D, MICU, Triage phone nurse, med Surg/oncology, home health, and now postpartum/newborn case management for an insurance company. I've come full circle in my career, and I love it. What I love the most is educated and informed mamas that have their own ideas and birth plans - including their carefully chosen OBGYNs with enough confidence in the nursing staff and their own abilities to allow Mom's plan as long as safety isn't compromised. These Mamas know that they can trade pitocin for breast pump stimulation. There are bright colored "peanuts" in every closet. The room lighting can be subtle or a party - Mom's remote. Mom's choice. Babies are born to Mom's favorite songs. Natural or epidural. Mirrors to watch. Curtains to not. Walking and dancing with spot monitoring in early labor - No longer strapped to the bed from admission to delivery. All the things that were once unheard of in hospital births are now becoming more accepted every day keeping safety as everyone's top priority. And you did this!! You, nurses like you, and OBGYNs that see value in Mom's participation have removed the rigidity with little explanation and increased trust exponentially among "the delivery party" - Mom, Dad, OB, and RN. These Moms are pumped after a delivery instead of drugged and sleepy. They're satisfied. Bonding and breastfeeding instead of sleeping while their baby spends hours in the nursery waiting to be touched. You have done some amazing things for L&D units in South Alabama Jen Hamilton. I wish you could see your book with notes in the margins, tab markers, dog-eared pages,

danababyyyyy💙 :

Jen, my husband of 6 years quite literally ghosted me on a random July Friday. Found out he’d been cheating and left me for her. I had NO ONE except my mom. I cannot tell you how many days and nights I spent completely alone. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. YOU WERE NOT WRONG for seeking comfort. We are all here for you. We love you so much.

HannaCastle|QuadMom&Surrogate :

Been scrolling past it all. It’s not our business. But your mental is our business. We are here for you. We love you! 💝 no matter what! Whenever you’re ready. No questions asked.

Jessica Marie :

This is my chicken Gemma and her baby Jewel she hatched all by herself 🥰

☽ Noelle ☾ :

Make a spam account!! Start fresh on that feed. It’s an algorithm!!! Only like stuff that’s funny good for you right now. Then you can have a “safe” place to scroll and distract yourself!

Maddie Gingrich :

I was crying in my bed alone at night about my unwanted divorce when I saw your video. Also made me feel less alone. Love you.

Buffy Ackman :

I have only seen videos of love and support for you. With the saying “how do we Jen Hamilton the Jen Hamilton?”. You are very loved. We all want to do for you what you have done for so many. I hope you eventually feel the love 💕

WolfieFinx :

Don’t regret a human moment ♥️

Makayla :

Apologize to no one. You were authentically you and that’s all you can be. Keep your head up mama. The pain is strong BUT so are you.

Petröl kid :

Is there somewhere you can go? Some place without WiFi or cell phone reception? Somewhere you can hear natural running water to unwind thoughts? I hope you find peace. Know that sharing your pain, is helping someone that isn’t as strong know that they aren’t alone.

Donna Cyr Beaudoin :

Here’s one big hug from all of us!! 🥰🥰🥰🥰

Lindsay| MT mama 🫶🏻 :

I’m so sorry you’re hurting Jen, you are our light when everything is scary and we’re here for you in your scary time 🫶🏻

NotThisAgain9234 :

I commented that I was going through my husband leaving 8 days ago unexpectedly after 27 years of marriage on your post and how broken I was. We had a great marriage. The comments people left for me under my comment on your post helped me survive another day. You are making magic and helping people even when you don’t know it.

br00kedec5th :

How about a change of pace? Cute/silly pet pictures anyone? This is Emma, the devourer of all. She wants all of the snacks.🥰

TheApproachablePagan :

This one is for the followers: please stop trashing him. She loves him, and that doesn’t stop because he is making choices. And if they reconcile, it will be harder for her to share those moments because we trashed on him so bad. Give her space and grace, and treat him how she would want you to treat anyone… with dignity and respect. We do not need to like him bc he is causing her pain, just don’t attack him.

Callie • The Lose It Log :

Even though you generously share your life so publicly- the internet still owes you privacy during this time. You had a human moment. We love you. We see you. And we will be here when you are ready to return. The dark doesn’t last forever - but they hurt like hell. Sending you so much love and light 💛

Meredith Steele :

Love you Jen.

Megan Powers71 :

We love you, and it will be ok... but IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Sorry to yell, but it has to be emphasized

Nurssassy 🆘 :