You’re right. I became who I wish I had growing up for others, while forgetting about myself. I did not purposely forget about myself obviously. It took years for me to realize that I had been neglecting myself. I was always putting others feelings, wants and needs before my own without thinking. I did stop doing that. Now I am working on showing up for myself. What’s sad is, that I struggle doing that. Why? I have no idea.
2026-06-15 16:33:17
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antics.with.arlo.and.halo :
I noticed that I had to set some serious boundaries when it came to helping people because I end up losing myself when supporting others. After a few years of therapy I am discovering who I am as a person and trying out all kinds of new things. I am a good listener and support my friends but I remember to put my mental health first so I can help others x
2026-06-15 16:43:55
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Krystal Galindo :
Interesting makes so much sense
2026-06-15 16:36:05
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jazzy :
💯💯💯 i never want anyone to feel the way I felt. I treat my niece and nephew the way I needed to be treated.
2026-06-15 16:35:42
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Louie Guerrero587 :
Yup, Hurt People Heal People. My Sons tell me I am the best Father they know.
2026-06-15 18:44:03
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evolutiondecorators :
True but at the same time, if that love & care was rejected as a adult, so I’m thrown between both worlds of caring and not
2026-06-15 16:40:47
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Taylor Angelique :
That's what happened to me but I was overdoing it and it was not healthy for me. I had to learn to turn that attention inward.
2026-06-16 03:24:56
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Shazmeera | Confidence Lab :
But isn’t it amazing that my 8 year old thinks I’m soo cool 🥰
2026-06-15 21:15:48
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NOTyouraveragelight♥️🧠💡🙏🏾 :
Absolutely factual.💡💡💡🙌🏼🙌🏽🙌🏼🙌🏽🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏼🙏
2026-06-21 13:01:19
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Ram :
when I first heard this it hit home perfectly. thats who we are. I started talking with my older self for support
2026-06-15 17:33:50
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TruckerLife :
absolutely correct 💯
2026-06-15 18:27:50
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♏🎙️=Marvin-Uno=🎙️♏ :
Me. 👍
2026-06-15 23:01:22
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𝓔𝓶𝓶𝓪𝓪 :
great
2026-06-15 17:55:05
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𝑯𝒖𝒕𝒉𝒆𝒊𝒇𝒂 :
💯
2026-06-15 16:34:28
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“FISHOOKS31” :
👏💯👏
2026-06-15 16:42:29
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