@aaroncoverthree: 🌀READY TO GASLIGHT YOUR KIDS? The self fulfilling prophecy is real - what you speak into a child becomes their beliefs and what they believe becomes who they are 🧠 Reticular activating system finds what parents focus on - negative narration produces more of exactly what you don't want 🌙 Quiet moments are where it lands - bedtime, car rides, random Tuesdays - not in the correction, in the calm 🔄 "You're always making a mess" switches to "you're really good at organizing your things" - same child, completely different brain trajectory 🌟 Boost their developing identity with omega-3s, alpha-GPC, and curcumin This is not to be taken as medical advice. Consult your personal doctor for your specific situation #parentingtips #parentinghacks #boymom #fatherhood #singleparent
Brag to your spouse as though the kid can’t hear you, but make sure they can hear you. Give examples too, like “jimmy was SO helpful today! I asked him to help clean up and he did SUCH a good job!” The kid will hear it, feel super proud of himself /herself, and want to do it again and do even better.
2026-06-16 22:48:59
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Ashley :
My mom told me all the time “you’re such a fast learner” and to this day I believe I can learn anything with dedication.
2026-06-17 03:25:26
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Katerina Minola :
I’m a teacher and I would do this with kids who I knew had a reputation to be “difficult” in the classroom. In the first days, when they would try to test my boundaries, I pretended not to know what they were doing and corrected them like they just made an honest mistake. Then, the first week, I would send their parents an email praising something good they did that week. It usually won those kids over and they were so good in my class!
2026-06-17 08:56:21
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carrie madeira :
Speak life over your children!!
2026-06-17 04:27:08
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user4643269838589 :
I'ma tell my nephew. "you're an amazing nephew always giving me half your money" hopefully it'll pay out in 20 years.
2026-06-17 13:44:00
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thepeanutbrownie :
A couple times I told my daughter “it’s okay, you’re just a little shy”. So then she would get even more freaked out going into crowded rooms. One day she mentioned being shy and I just went “You’re not shy! You’re so outgoing!” And suddenly she’s the life of the party.
2026-06-18 02:58:48
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omar.sangiovanni :
Words are magic
2026-06-16 22:37:17
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Laura J :
I’m so bad about focusing on the negative bc my daughter does NOT listen lol
2026-06-17 22:57:46
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JamilaBedelia 🇨🇦 :
This works on adults too btw, I do this with my team at work. Not the bedtime part but the positive reinforcement 😂
2026-06-18 19:43:25
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bjives :
I accidently called my 3 year old a dumbass once (I feel terrible about it i shouldn't have said it) and he still rmemebers me saying that and calls himself a dumbass now when he does something wrong.
2026-06-18 08:01:11
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Evermore Permanent Jewelry :
I was told I was stupid all my life 😳 I had an ugly voice inside louder than mine all this time
2026-06-18 13:47:13
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Mango❤️ :
I am a teacher and I give end of year awards for things I know they have the capacity for but need to work a little harder on. I was hoping it would work this way.😄
2026-06-17 14:16:03
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KAGISHO :
This also works on adults. Not lying but supporting effort, not perfection and minimising blame or criticism.
2026-06-20 16:56:33
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smashley515 :
Facts! My parents (especially my dad) always told me I can do anything I put my mind to and that nothing is too hard. I’m 33 now and fully believe it still. I can literally learn anything I want to learn. Sure, some things might take more effort but I can still do it. I’m doing the same with my kids now! They are smart, amazing, confident kids
2026-06-17 15:26:32
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chilibean821 :
I brag about them to my mom over the phone, when the kids are within earshot
2026-06-17 23:03:43
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dadbot9000 :
I called my son Flash on the ball field and he started running faster
2026-06-17 03:01:11
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Joshua Gomez :
doesn't just work with children, works with everyone and everything.
2026-06-18 06:38:28
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Lyreck :
This is true with adults and their own thoughts as well! thank you!
2026-06-16 23:07:24
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powdereddoughnut11 :
Encouraging good behavior is more important than constantly being criticized.
2026-06-17 13:25:59
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Delanie† ☀️ :
Dude, this WORKS! My daughter just voluntarily deep cleaned the kitchen. I commented on what a great job she was doing paying attention to detail and came back and she’d even cleaned the stove top! It’s and old style one with propane grates 😳
2026-06-17 02:54:43
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1720me :
I’ve been doing this since they were toddlers and it works so well!! I’m glad this is actually psychologically healthy 🤣
2026-06-17 16:16:27
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◡̈ Silly Goose 🪿 :
Children will rise to the occasion if you let them. They become who we say thee are: out voices become their inner voice as adults, and it will never change. Choose wisely what that voice will say about them and sound like when they fail and are at their lowest. They are ours to steward and care for for such a short time ♥️
2026-06-16 03:46:25
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Milkyjoe :
Yes. My kid was acting up at the park. On the car ride home I told her how proud I was of her for trying her best to be good. She said “I am good!”. I noticed her behavior improved after this.
2026-06-17 16:30:27
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LeAutumn :
Needed to hear this for sure
2026-06-17 04:07:58
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Lizabep :
This works on adults too
2026-06-17 07:17:51
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