Vanlivinn
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The_Doodler :
so what is the life you want? you love him, you love your combined life... but you don't? I'm confused
2026-06-15 16:47:12
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MMelecs :
I respect the strength to do this.. however I hope it was communicated prior. Because why can’t goals be achieved as a couple? What could possibly make someone leave a good guy? Makes no sense to me at all.
2026-06-16 20:37:54
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Guess3d :
don't worry, he'll be fine.
2026-06-17 18:35:20
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the_LB_Bfg :
What could you regret more than breaking up with hubby?
2026-06-16 17:27:39
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rob-f23 :
This happened to me 6 months ago and its heart breaking. Honestly I think there is an expectation now through dopamine hits, social media that it should always be amazing. Maybe take a break but if you love him and your life is great- try working together and compromise for some of the life you want but together.
2026-06-16 15:52:12
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t' :
My ex apologised two years ago for breaking up with me. She said in retrospect it was for no good reason and I was a great partner and father that she should never let go. I've been single for eleven years now, I'll never love or trust anyone like that ever again. Sometimes you have everything you need,right there, you just have to work together if something is missing.
2026-06-16 18:52:19
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Whimsical🩷Witch :
I did it 30 yrs ago and literally even my mother was furious at me 🤣. My brother stayed best mates with him and my sisters and family are to this day, still friends with him. I know they say at ‘family’ gatherings that they still miss him 🤣.
2026-06-15 19:51:18
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Leo :
What is the life you want to live without him?
2026-06-16 21:33:48
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Lowri Tedstone :
I went through this. He was absolutely amazing, took my two children on and really did make a great life for us, but I just wasn’t happy and had lost my spark completely, I didn’t know who I was anymore. It was really hard, especially with how upset he was, but a year later I finally feel like me again and I have 0 regrets❤️Put yourself first always xx
2026-06-15 16:21:27
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Ozeanastronaut :
do t use words like great life and great guy, when you didn't mean it
2026-06-17 13:13:57
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Johandershmut :
If he's done nothing wrong then he deserves better. Obviously I'm biased and bitter as it happened to me. Don't go back to him if you don't find what your looking for.
2026-06-16 17:08:41
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Leemo :
hey so like from someone who's been on the other side (guy). if you're not happy and its not right you have to do right by you. not doing that won't help him and you. hopefully both of you can come out of it well. there will be better times.
2026-06-16 18:15:08
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ℂ𝕙𝕣𝕚𝕤𝕋𝕠𝕜 :
Why couldn’t you follow your dreams with him by your side?
2026-06-16 20:56:13
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🏴PH9496 :
The guy's either wondering what just happened and what he did wrong (nothing!), or he's quietly heaving a sigh of relief that the decision has been taken and he's free to find happiness.
2026-06-18 05:15:12
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PJ :
So here is a genuine question and no hate intended. When you say life is too short and you want to be happy and one of your actions to address this lack of happiness is to separate from your ex that loved you and you still have love for him. This implies that something in your relationship was a key driver in you not being happy. So my questions are now that you are separated are there other aspects of your life that you feel need to change to give you this happiness and if so were these changes possible whilst still in your marriage and if not why not and if yes why didn’t you change those things. The last question is a tough one. If the main reason for your lack of happiness was your ex and if he was a different man you would have been happy, does this mean that you are now looking for a different man with these qualities? If so your happiness is not now 100% within your control as it's conditional on not only finding a man you desire but for that man to desire you. Are you comfortable with your happiness not being something that you can obtain by yourself? x
2026-06-16 23:48:45
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user302010 :
You’ve met someone else
2026-06-16 18:29:24
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SpoiltbySoph :
You have some strange negative followers… you follow your gut feeling! It knows everything and it tells you in different ways what is right and what is wrong for you! Ignore these silly comments from people telling you to work it out, if that’s were the case you wouldn’t still be feeling this way. Unless someone’s gone through this they won’t understand !
2026-06-30 13:24:59
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leejhall1984 :
please speak to the other person... there us 2 sides.... what if they are having a bad time... what if they are in a bad olace
2026-06-16 19:19:09
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Russell Harper :
My wife just said the same thing , but how do I know how to put right when I don’t know what I have done wrong g
2026-06-16 22:22:34
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Overworked_Empath :
watching him meeting and falling in love with someone else and been happy for him will show you he was not the one for you.
2026-06-16 17:40:48
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More Than Sober :
Liv, as somebody who’s gone through this over the past 4 years, prepare yourself. This is going to get harder before it’s gets better. Remember this: The last act of love will to be become the person you want.
2026-06-17 09:03:01
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AngeWorld :
I’m in this position right now and i completely understand.
2026-06-17 05:59:33
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Dawn Marie Randall :
I’ve waited until I’m 52 to realise life is short with ADHD also so fantastic I have the balls to do it earlier 👏👏
2026-06-15 16:52:45
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eclectica_trades :
it's a hard decision but the right decision. 🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-15 16:21:06
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Bex ❤️ :
You chose him because he is a great guy, that doesn’t mean he’s right for you. You deserve to be fulfilled and loved in the way you need and I think you are extremely brave for taking this step. Brave for both of you, be kind to yourself ❤️
2026-06-16 18:54:08
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