@natashavctoria: #fearfulavoidant x #anxiousattachment

Arya Ambrose :

may i bring up something related but out of what you usually talk. for a long time i tought i was very avoidant and turn out i just was on the ace spectrum so intimacy would at times not give me connection the way it would for other's and i tought it was an attachment issue and that it meant that i wasn't commited enough. added to the attachment styles, it really made this confusing for me or partners.