Codependency Kate
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Monday 15 June 2026 17:11:43 GMT
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tiktokuser :
my couples therapist got me to realize I was being abused and in danger and she helped make my ex think we were "working through things" so he stayed chill while she was also helping me get out of the terrible marriage!!! she was amazing.
2026-06-15 21:05:55
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boo4you :
Not enough therapists have deconstructed the impact patriarchy impacts romantic partnership
2026-06-16 20:02:58
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L :
My couples therapist said it doesn’t matter what happened in the past and that there’s no need to talk about what has happened in our relationship, the only thing that matters is the “now” I was like excuse me? 🤨 history 100% matters
2026-06-16 00:58:22
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Athena All Along :
Couples therapy was so traumatic for me
2026-06-15 23:16:30
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MmmNo :
Our therapist suggested that I give him time to cool off after he gets home from work by not asking him for help with the house or kids. I was working, taking care of both kids, and have multiple chronic illnesses. I asked why I don’t get the same time when he’s had time on his drive. She said that it was MORE IMPORTANT TO HIM. I left both of them
2026-06-16 19:47:22
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Elizabeth L :
I KID YOU NOT, a marriage therapist told me to just get over something because my husband had already apologized… we never went back there.
2026-06-17 01:46:26
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l0nelyfl0wer :
I genuinely think therapists need some more sociology knowledge. I have two masters in counselling and sociology and I think sociology actually helps me more with finding power dynamics
2026-06-16 05:31:08
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Laundrymountainclimber :
“Did you specifically say cheating hurts?”
2026-06-16 02:17:47
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Mørningstar Møød :
our marriage therapist was pushing for "50/50" equality type therapy with no finger pointing. by our 5th session, she pushed for a 1:1 with each of us to "reflect after a month" in this session she provided me with several brochures for safe homes and attny representatives to leave. she said don't let him know I'm leaving. this helped a lot.
2026-06-17 01:12:53
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Just Jen pls :
Thank god my professor prioritized power dynamics and other extrinsic factors and how it impacts couples.
2026-06-15 18:52:19
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Jimothy Fiddlesticks :
I said in our couples session that I was drowning and need him to help with household responsibilities. Our therapist suggested I make him a list. I think I left my body for a moment after she said that. My response was “so your solution is to ask me to do ANOTHER thing…?”
2026-06-17 02:12:25
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🦋𝕷𝖚𝖈𝖎𝖉 𝕭𝖆𝖉𝖉𝖎𝖊🦋 :
also this is why orna really bothers me!!
2026-06-15 21:22:23
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Marissa :
Absolutely not a 50/50 dynamic. Ever. 🤷🏻♀️
2026-06-16 03:20:44
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OuroHermetica :
We went in once and literally said “he’s financially abusing me” and she suggested we both go home and write out our budgets 🙃
2026-06-16 15:37:28
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lauragriffith961 :
I left ours because she would ask him question after question about HIMSELF & wait huge moments of silence waiting for him to answer. Then asked me about what HE said. THEN she would interrupt me 3 words into what I was saying, finishing the statement she THOUGHT I was going to say, that I WASN'T.
2026-06-16 00:01:54
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Hoe :
my couples therapist started by discussing our respective childhood traumas to get a better sense of who we were. My ex determined that she was "taking my side" by doing this. I got divorced shortly afterward.
2026-06-16 14:25:56
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SherriGyrl :
Communication is rarely the issue they make it out to be. The issues have likely been communicated ad nauseam.
2026-06-15 19:53:24
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Ddoopadoop☘️🐀 :
In mine, we were both supposed to write about how we felt about our early relationship. I came with my homework done; he did nothing. He gave a 5 minute monologue about how it was love at first sight and he knew immediately he’d marry me. I talked about the unequal division of labor his absenteeism as a father and in our relationship and how that affected me. The therapist tried to make me apologize to him how I made him feel by reporting he didn’t help do housework and left me at home 4 nights a week with a newborn to go to the bar. That was it for me.
2026-06-16 12:12:58
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purpleflowercats :
I just needed someone to say “it’s okay to leave and let’s figure out how.” And that’s all my mom needed to hear too.
2026-06-16 18:25:54
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sunshinezenwillow :
I shared in couples therapy that my trust in him was broken because he was unfaithful. She asked him why: he said he was lonely. She turned to me and said “can you understand that he was lonely?” I said yeah I was lonely too but I didn’t cheat. Being lonely doesn’t justify cheating. Ever. And then said this would be my last session with her as our therapist.
2026-06-16 13:32:46
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Carcamdan :
Grateful to be trained as a social worker because we were trained to identify and serve the most vulnerable first
2026-06-16 13:04:22
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scrollofthedaye :
In a horrible relationship, my personal therapist told me that no ethical therapist would take us on. And it reframed couples therapy for me permanently
2026-06-16 14:44:41
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So :
I only ever understood people going into couples therapy if their dynamic quickly shifted, because of having kids or going through big trauma and there's a shared interest in learning new methods to handle every day life together. Trying to mend people together who have been fighting for years is just bonkers to me.
2026-06-16 14:54:47
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hayls :
I did one session of couples therapy where I explained my partner was complaining about not spending enough time with him and then I went on to say how I only would take one weekend each MONTH to see my friend who lived further away…. The therapist said to work on things together that maybe I should stop seeing my friend for a bit. Essentially telling me I should isolate myself fully to appease him
2026-06-16 15:42:36
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Tina Belcher :
"have you directly communicated that you'd like him to celebrate you on your birthday or spontaneously do things that make you feel loved and appreciated?" brother why did no one ever have to directly communicate that shit to ME 😭😂
2026-06-16 23:01:15
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