Old Man Murphy 🃏
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Chris The Scotian :
Murphy,dont regret the video because of the tone deaf comments . they are helping prove the videos point
2026-06-15 20:33:06
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Lyla Sky :
Everything said in that video is absolutely true. As a trans woman, I spent so many years of my adult life going to therapy and trying to work through my trauma and my emotions, and it was insanely hard. I kept thinking I needed to figure out how to solve my problems on my own, because I needed to be in control of myself, and my mental health became so bad my anxiety was causing me to have seizures. After transitioning, I finally started to be able to process things better, but without years of therapy and support from loved ones I would never have gotten here on my own
2026-06-15 20:35:41
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Jawny Mak :
Everyone in my life has already checked out. They’re very familiar with my open book mentality.
2026-06-15 21:47:57
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Gail :
Your frustration is valid. 🫂
2026-06-15 21:35:37
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Kate Larson :
Maybe those people, who have said they would be there for you, don’t realise you just want to vent. Maybe they think you want them to find solutions and they don’t know how. Have you told anyone “I just need an ear so I can get stuff off my chest and then I’ll be good”? My sister and I call each other and say “I need to vent” and the other one says “ok go!”
2026-06-15 22:14:47
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Juggermunk :
💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙💙
2026-06-15 20:33:35
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Duckie :
so...you want listening ears, not advice, fixing... .questions, no judging....patience, not condemning.........is this correct on my understanding?
2026-06-15 21:10:23
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PapaPalpatine79 🇨🇦 :
When they reach out, you answer. But like you said, it’s not reciprocal.
2026-06-15 22:55:35
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Marco :
Thanks for putting it into words what I've always felt about it.
2026-06-15 22:58:32
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sugarnova25 :
I feel this. Currently the only way i can get someone to even listen to me, is to pay them. My family, and friends all come to me to trauma dump, and leave me to figure out my own problems.
2026-06-15 22:56:37
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raven :
😳😳😳 my mom, you used to resent my husband cause I would call her and complain. I'm like whoa, whoa, whoa, you let me vent, you help me. We figure out how I can solve the problem, but as soon as we hang up or walk away, or whatever the situation is, you let it go. That's how he's acting right now, or that's how it is right now. But that's not how it always is. You don't have to take on anybody's stuff. They just need helping ear vent, you know, just some of the talk to it. And share experience and do not feel alone. But as soon as you walk away or hang up, you should let that go. I mean, obviously if it's a serious problem. You can help them, you know, but let it go. People think they have to take on everybody's stuff. You can still be helpful without doing that.I guess what i'm trying to say. and I hope somebody actually reads what I wrote a lot of people don't.And I hope it was clear because I used talk to text. trigger finger hurts
2026-06-15 20:27:37
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The Beege :
people say they care, when they really don't.
2026-06-15 20:34:01
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Cfrosty1 :
Reaching out either does nothing or is used against you.
2026-06-15 22:15:36
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LadyWithNoHead :
At this point, I’m just waiting for the tooth fairy to come collect the rest of my bones. I don’t vent to people anymore either. But I’m more than willing and happy to let you talk for hours if you need to.
2026-06-15 20:50:54
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athos_wolf69 :
* walks in, nods to Murpht hands him a beer and sits not talking just is here with no words*
2026-06-15 23:03:19
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