A safe person would say "I'm sorry you felt a need to hide that. You don't need to hide that from me"
2026-06-20 21:49:16
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Danielle :
Not the ass because her personal life is no ones business. BUT if mollys heart is genuine, I understand why she’s upset. But I understand OP’s caution
2026-06-20 17:24:41
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Julia Irzyk ♿️ :
she's a work colleague. discussing your dating life would have been inappropriate
2026-06-20 20:49:09
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Lisa :
her text IS the reason
2026-06-20 19:00:37
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Its_Youknowwhoiam_Jaria🫶🏽 :
NTA. No one is entitled to anyone else’s privacy
2026-06-20 18:07:30
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mamalasaturn :
At work?? No ones entitled to tell anyone anythinggg
2026-06-22 12:31:47
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Isabelle Yost :
NTA. Not the coworkers place to get upset. No one has to share their personal business with anyone if they don’t want. Coworker needs to reflect.
2026-06-20 17:06:37
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Cara 📚🖋️💄🇨🇦 :
Molly should have worded her text differently. “I’ve realized you might not have felt safe disclosing your relationship to me and I’m so sorry I gave you that impression. You are safe with me and I value our friendship and want to support you anyway I can.” Instead of making it about her and her feelings.
2026-06-21 16:11:30
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Nope :
Texas is safe and welcoming btw. 🤣 But your personal life is your PERSONAL life, its nobody's business!
2026-06-20 20:47:24
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zandile🇿🇦🇸🇿 :
it's not her business 🙄
2026-06-21 15:15:36
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Madylyon :
I think Molly's reaction is reason enough why OP didn't feel comfortable telling her
2026-06-21 02:06:11
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Veronika Stokke-John :
FYI Edinburgh is pronounced edin-bruh
2026-06-22 13:12:30
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AD :
Better safe than sorry.
2026-06-20 17:08:41
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Colorfullefty🆘🇺🇸 :
No one coming out or being outed owes others an apology for not telling others sooner, given how shit the world can be about it. The mom in heartstopper says it best after her son comes out. “I’m sorry if I ever made you feel like you couldn’t tell me sooner.”
2026-06-20 19:26:11
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Zuleika Author 📚 :
Your safety comes first
2026-06-20 18:31:07
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its.me.betty :
You don’t owe anyone details to your personal life
2026-06-20 21:16:08
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Katiebeth :
If she were safe, her email would've said that she wanted you to know that. And that she loves you and hopes that you can feel safe talking to her in the future. Instead she made it about her own feelings.
2026-06-21 13:54:47
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zivile001 :
there are not your friends they are colleagues and it's none of their business.
2026-06-20 18:32:25
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RDiane :
NTA. She doesn’t owe Molly a thing. She’s a work friend. We don’t owe anyone anything.
2026-06-20 17:34:11
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robertjBuddha :
NTA, as I continually have to come out and it's tiring having to judge whether it's safe or not.
2026-06-21 13:55:30
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Flying Spaghetti Monster 👾 :
she can be genuinely hurt and genuinely wrong. OP is not the asshole. And if someone didn't share this with me I would genuinely ask if there was something I could have done differently to make it clear that you are safe to share that with me.
2026-06-20 19:34:28
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LadyBree :
That long text is exactly why you’re not the asshole… sometimes you know subconsciously to keep your business to yourself.
2026-06-20 18:57:40
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Emelina :
NTA. Its OPs business and she didnt wanna share. OP isn’t obligated to divulge details
2026-06-20 18:13:09
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Ace :
Its not her business nor is it relevant.
2026-06-21 13:49:59
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Jay Bryant :
NTA it's not molly business to know Op personal life they are co workers not friends.
2026-06-20 17:58:33
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