meandme :
to all those who say that it’s “social media” standards, it’s not. it is what you call “emotional inelligence”. kitang kita yung “not repeatledy taught” and it applies to that, you’ll know the feeling if you’re the one in that situation. i myself experienced that shit, nakakapagod mag explain, mag sabi, and umintindi over and over again the things i love and hate. yung pagsasabihan mo sya na nasasaktan ka sa ganito na ayaw mo sa ganito, gusto ko sa ganyan, but still he chose to do the things that hurts me most. he knows…they know what we want, but they chose not to. and yes, i’ve considered him a lot of times, na para bang ako na lang lagi yung umiintindi, na ako yung lalaki sa relasyon namin. i accepted his “sorry” multiple times even though it hurt me, kahit na wasak na wasak na ako because of everything that he did. inintindi ko sya, pinatawad, pinagbigyan over and over again hanggang sa di ko na talaga kinaya yung sakit and lack of trust na nag patongpatong na. mind you, there was no cheating that happened, it was lack of emotional intelligence and immaturity(he’s in his 20’s). kaya importante talaga na you’d choose a partner with emotional intelligence no matter the gender is, or better yet, wait for God’s perfect time, because that is really important in a relationship. yung taong iintindihin ka kahit anong mangyari. so no, it’s not “social media standard”. everyone must know and learn from it. every relationship needs “emotional intelligence”, dahil mahirap talaga if none or especially both of you doesn’t have that.
2026-06-18 16:11:07