He probably did mean everything he said. But then he got busy with work and didn’t talk to her for a day, and she turned it into a whole situation. That kind of pressure makes people step back and rethink things. And that’s usually when they decide it’s not worth it.
2026-06-16 11:33:37
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Sophie :
he could take 10 seconds to let her know he is busy and talk later. Just saying
2026-06-16 21:40:23
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Sabrina Austain-Ragl :
I use chat gpt to help with my anxiety. it tells me that my thoughts are likely my anxiety so I know not to say it
2026-06-16 23:24:22
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Pallie Wale 🇿🇦🇨🇩🇵🇸 :
yeah that reaction after not texting pissed me off. I would react the same way he did if I got that much pressure so early in the talking phase. a relationship is not a job.
2026-06-16 16:43:13
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G :
2 weeks…
2026-06-16 22:13:18
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SharpShooter 🇨🇦 :
She is right about not participating in dynamics you don’t want. I told my current boyfriend I wasn’t going to sleep with him until we were both ready for a committed relationship. We are both glad we waited (and it was a short wait), and now we have clarity. Thank you Sidney!!
2026-06-16 19:59:43
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clarb :
Wow I love these. It’s like a case study
2026-06-16 12:58:13
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appleuser88548520 :
U r such a breath of fresh air I feel like when I hear other peoples stories I literally have u in my head
2026-06-16 16:00:20
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me20032022 :
but in this case, was the guy looking for a relationship if he said the plan was to get to know her? cause grtting to know someone what does it even mean? just out of curiosity or getting to know for something in the long run?
2026-06-16 08:59:02
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brainrot connoisseur :
He messages asap everytime and i just took three days and now two to respond. He’s never mentioned it.
2026-06-16 10:05:02
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MarieLouise70 :
I mean you’re not lying
2026-06-16 21:50:05
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Quoderat_Demon :
This was a great read. 👏👏👏
2026-06-16 09:12:06
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Sristy Gurung :
Love bombing?
2026-06-16 13:42:44
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Vicky 🇨🇦 :
Wish I had thought about you yesterday. I panicked and overloaded my anxiety on him. And he backed and said he needed space. I’ll do better next time!
2026-06-16 22:37:11
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fareez.farid :
if one has done multiple therapy conversations (like 3-4) and can sense the relationship is under burnout, how do we bounce back to feel better with each other again
2026-06-16 21:55:30
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x :
Do you think it could’ve gone somewhere if he genuinely wanted to get to know you and she had worked through her issues before all this OR was it just a capacity issue on his end?? Would you have cut your losses sooner??
2026-06-16 23:09:25
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MagickalThings :
3 months not dates if you want something serious not after the first date
2026-06-17 00:45:41
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Dinah Wettergren :
You’re incredible!
2026-06-16 08:55:58
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Jalissa :
I've talked to him on and off for a week, the last 3 days being consistent. Convo was great. Flirty and he seemed serious in finding a partner. He said he "would love the opportunity to take me out," but hasn't set any concrete plans. Hasn't responded to my last text in 4 days. I refuse to text him, but if he does text me I plan on kindly and non judgmentally letting him know I'm looking for more communication. Is this a good idea?
2026-06-16 20:51:34
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sexytechnogirl24 :
you’re not suppose to text someone you just started seeing everyday…
2026-06-17 02:08:21
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Besm.amb :
Sydney , please dont disappear or something!!LIKE NEVER HAHA , we need you , you helped me so much with your perspective ❤️🥰 YOU RE A BLESSING
2026-06-16 22:02:03
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Barbie Asia :
Am I in the wrong for letting him know after 2 weeks and 2 dates that I like him so much ? I don’t want to be too much and scare him as he is a very busy serious man
2026-06-16 19:27:12
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MidwestNatalie :
100% on point
2026-06-16 12:36:37
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