Nafsiyat yeh kehti hai ke insaan sirf roti, pani aur neend se nahi jeeta, balki use Jazbati Talluq (Emotional Connection) ki bhi zarurat hoti hai. Ek aisa wujood jo use sune, samjhe aur qubool kare.
Aurat ki mojoodgi ka asar sirf mohabbat tak mehdood nahi hota. Ek samajhdar, mukhlis aur narm mizaj aurat mard ke andar mojood zehni dabao, bechaini aur tanhai ko kam karne mein kirdar ada kar sakti hai. Isi liye maahireen-e-nafsiyat kehte hain ke:
“Insaan ko sab se zyada sukoon wahan milta hai jahan use judge na kiya jaye balki samjha jaye.”
Dilchasp baat yeh hai ke nafsiyat mein ek istilah “Emotional Safety” kehlati hai, yani jazbati tahaffuz. Jab insaan kisi aise shakhs ke saath ho jahan woh bina dare apni kamzoriyan, pareshaniyan aur khamoshiyan bhi bayan kar sake to dimagh khud ba khud difa’i kaifiyat se nikal kar sukoon ki halat mein aa jata hai.
Isi liye baaz auqat pasandeeda aurat ki ek mukhtasir si baat, ek muskurahat ya sirf yeh pooch lena ke “Aap kaise hain?” insaan ke andar aisi roshni paida kar deta hai jo kai dino ki thakan ko halka kar deti hai.
Lekin nafsiyat ek aur khoobsurat baat bhi kehti hai:
“Sukoon sirf mohabbat mein nahi, balki sahi mohabbat mein hota hai.”
Kyun ke har talluq sukoon nahi deta. Kuch talluqat insaan ko tor bhi dete hain. Asal sukoon wahan hota hai jahan izzat ho, aitbaar ho, qubooliyat ho aur khuloos ho.
Isi liye agar is post ko nafsiyat ki zuban mein ek jumlay mein bayan kiya jaye to shayad yun kaha jaye:
“Warzish jism ko zinda rakhti hai, magar ek mukhlis aur samajhne wala talluq insaan ke andar jeene ki khwahish ko zinda rakhta hai………….
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