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Emily Scott :
My ex fiance cheated with multiple women. I spent a lot of time digging for more info until I finally realized, “it doesn’t matter because what I do know is enough to make a decision. More info will not change the outcome, it’ll only hurt me” and I say that to myself 100x a day now. Three months out now and it’s hard but I am getting stronger every day.
2026-06-16 14:05:46
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Brandikay45 :
In my experience, they only admit to what can’t be denied. There is always more. The depths of my ex husbands double life was/is vast, deep, and seemingly never-ending. And the truth is, I’ll never know the full extent of it. It’s like you have these puzzle pieces that don’t quite fit and the mental and emotional exhaustion a person experiences trying to make it all make sense is something I never want to experience again.
2026-06-16 18:54:17
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Emily | Eating and Roaming :
That is one of the hardest things about infidelity: the person who was supposed to be your singular place of safety and truth no longer is. The ongoing deception is, in my view, far worse than a single physical act (or inappropriate conversation). I do believe recovery from infidelity is possible in very rare cases - where a person gets caught up in a moment, makes a singular mistake, and then is immediately contrite and transparent about it. Because then you still do have a betrayal, but not deception. (Not that forgiveness and healing are owed even then, but to me that would be a baseline for even considering moving forward together.) But hiding it, getting found out because of circumstances (not proactive disclosure), and then trickle-truthing on top of that? NOPE.
2026-06-16 14:55:38
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zaza :
my first relationship I stayed and it just kept happening, lies, infidelity, emotional cheating, it was horrific. my second relationship at the first incident I left and I didn't regret it at all.
2026-06-16 18:02:37
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Rose🫐🦢🌊 :
There’s always more. It’s one of the hardest things to accept — knowing that you will never know the full truth and reality.
2026-06-16 13:43:02
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Velvetsubmarine :
I’m so sorry you’ve experienced this. I relate so hard to finding out slivers of the truth. I felt like a detective the entire time trying to put this puzzle together that he willingly withheld from me. It was distressing 😩
2026-06-16 13:42:31
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The Glitter Fairy 🍉🇺🇦 :
It’s been 6 months and I still don’t trust the story he told me… but I also just want to know the truth. I feel like it will give closure even if it hurts. But then I don’t have to question anything any more
2026-06-16 13:53:39
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TapiocaDance :
Unfortunately there is always more. If someone was willing to lie to their partner in the first place, they'll keep doing it. Why would they come clean now when there's nothing to gain by coming clean? Going through something similar with my ex of 9 years. I thought I knew what had happened, found out even more in the breakup through friends. I'm now working on radical acceptance in therapy, that even if I want to I can't change the facts and reality that someone I thought loved me could do things that hurt me. It's moral injury. Your story resonated a lot with me.
2026-06-16 14:20:37
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harmannnnnnnny :
My opinion based on my experience is you rarely get the full truth my ex kept lying and I kept finding out more truths about what happened for months simply because I asked questions and found out. And even now I’m not sure I know the full truth. I get what you mean about wanting to know the truth it’s tough
2026-06-16 19:25:07
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debbieghost :
You are explaining my exact story.
2026-06-16 13:46:55
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Alana :
Read immediately: Leave a Cheater Gain a Life. It will be extremely clarifying. 💯💯💯
2026-06-16 17:23:19
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Allison 💙 :
You never get the full truth and even if they told you, at that point do you believe it? Eventually, you’ll get to a place where you’re ok with that fact. You’ll notice you’re more focused on your truth. I’m sorry that happened to you. But you will be ok, I promise. It’s hard now, but one day you’ll have a day when you don’t even think about it. Live your life for you, not them. 🫶
2026-06-16 14:34:00
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🍃Brooke🍂 :
You’re not wrong. Those feelings are the truth in your body
2026-06-16 16:37:31
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X.mentos.X :
Once you are aware, it’s so difficult to push past critical cracks in the foundation of our relationships. I think you’re doing a damn good job for yourself moving forward with you on the forefront of your consideration!!
2026-06-16 14:43:05
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Mordred321 :
you learn to live with it. and with not knowing
2026-06-16 20:49:42
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Sam 🌈🩷 :
My mom surprisingly is the one who told me just believe whatever your heart tells you happened because it doesn’t change the outcome and what you already know.
2026-06-16 17:52:55
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India :
Yup, the trust is never the same after
2026-06-16 17:04:46
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LN :
After a point you have to tell yourself that it's none of your business. There's no closure to be had getting more info, just more pain and doubt and questions. He is not worthy of you and you have acted accordingly - you should be so proud of your backbone.
2026-06-16 17:33:19
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herry Jordan :
Strong relationships thrive on trust, honesty, and openness. The right support can help you discover the truth and achieve clarity and peace of mind
2026-06-17 23:00:33
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Mel Bird :
I know I'll never be told the truth, he won't admit anything, but I know enough to know something happened
2026-06-17 16:34:35
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Crispy Biscuit :
I never asked my ex anything about his cheating. I trusted my gut and I never felt like the details mattered. You know. Your body knows, your spirit knows. The details don't matter.
2026-06-17 20:32:49
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clarebear284 :
You're almost certainly right. Sorry
2026-06-16 18:08:00
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🗑 :
Tomorrow is a year since my husband walked out on me on our kids birthday. I still find things out to this day. I can never believe him fully. We’ll never be together again. 16.5 years just gone.
2026-06-17 12:22:30
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FestiveFancyFit :
I agree, I don’t think I would ever be able to actually trust again after that kind of betrayal and how can you have a happy, healthy, intimate relationship if you can never ever trust your partner again??
2026-06-17 14:24:15
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Lisa :
Exactly! The story my husband told me makes zero sense. He tells me it was the first time ever in 18 yrs. It was a spontaneous thing that happened and he had no control over it. My gut tells me there’s more to the story too 😔
2026-06-16 22:37:21
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