@phoenixpathway: Good Intentions Are Not Real Behavior Stop accepting a currency that only spends inside your relationship. Meaning well is not an action. When you give him credit for what he promises to do rather than what he actually executes you let him off the hook. He has learned that giving you an intention buys him immediate relief without requiring any change. Remove everything he says he is going to do and look strictly at his track record. Look at his behavior not his potential. #relationshipadvice #datingtipsforwomen #feminineenergy #knowyourworth
My boyfriend said one time that he thought about stopping to get me flowers but didn’t. I told him that admission was worse than not getting them 😂
2026-06-16 16:06:17
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DebatesNow :
Thinking of himself as a good person matters more than being one
2026-06-17 18:16:48
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Nikki :
went from a "i thought about getting you flowers but didn't" relationship to a "i thought about getting you flowers but didn't see any peonies (my favorite) so i looked around and found you this peony candle" relationship and I am never going back to the intention-only dynamic.
2026-06-17 10:55:08
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Jennimac2 :
I ALWAYS tell my kids “what you meant to do doesn’t matter, what matters is what you did” and I apply it to everyone around me 🤷♀️
2026-06-16 17:10:08
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Mistress Heather :
My last husband screamed at me to stop looking at what he did and only listen to his words. He was so sincerely furious that I was paying attention to his actions
2026-06-18 01:23:14
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alex 🖤 :
“It’s the thought that counts” Not around here! The thought does not count without follow through AND consistency!
2026-06-17 14:08:18
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jennylenn :
Quit falling for potential and see him for who he currently is.
2026-06-17 04:38:36
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Aaron Malloy :
You have to stop trying to be the "nice boss" that will never fire the employee simply because their "trying their best." It's okay to have a standard that must be met. Regardless of their intentions, if the standards are not met, you are fired. Just business.
2026-06-18 11:01:02
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Deedee :
I once asked why he never got me flowers if he knew I wanted flowers and he said “I was gonna get you some tomorrow but you ruined it. No point now”
2026-06-18 01:28:42
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✨Gg✨ :
Intent doesn’t pardon result.
2026-06-17 14:32:31
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NikNok :
Falling in love with someone’s potential is a trap
2026-06-19 01:24:44
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BigAl :
Well, shiiiit Landon. I wasn’t readddyy
2026-06-17 19:29:43
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Catscoffeescience :
I’m going to start telling him “I don’t need explanations, excuses, or even apologies. I’m only accepting changed behavior.”
2026-06-16 20:36:52
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taata_kavi :
my therapist told me "you don't get what you deserve, you get what you tolerate"...
2026-06-23 17:22:09
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iWasntListening :
imagine having a doctor that "means well"
2026-06-24 22:16:50
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Rolleen :
😭😭😭Omg you made me so annoyed at myself I literally wasted years Eww
2026-06-24 10:35:53
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Starlit Knight :
“Yeah but I’m trying”….ok? but the outcome for me is still the same!!
2026-06-17 06:21:03
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sjaethedreamer 🥢 :
Okay. So I’m not crazy!!
2026-06-19 15:20:12
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AGirlDoesNotKnow :
It’s the “I’ll do anything for you” “but I can’t do that.”
2026-07-22 09:00:36
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cheaply does it :
I'm so glad I'm a leaver
2026-06-24 07:11:37
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DD Menen :
that's why I watch and value actions NOT PROMISES, NOT INTENTIONS.... ACTIONS ONLY
2026-06-24 09:40:02
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Kris :
It’s so bothersome how on point every video you make is. 😳
2026-06-16 14:15:01
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