@nicknamed.bree: 🤯👂🏻 Translating the things avoidants often say! Welcome back to part 11 of my series: Avoidant Translator! (I am a fearful avoidant/highly disorganized in terms of attachment, so I’ve experienced both sides of the spectrum!) #avoidant #avoidantattachmentstyle #dismissiveavoidant

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royalpainting
🤸 :
y'all think too much about other people's thought processes. it seems maddening 😭 i dont want to text because it's impersonal and time consuming.
2026-06-22 18:46:29
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auroradebell
aurora :
It’s unfathomable to me that a person should have access to my attention 24/7 and I’m supposed to APOLOGIZE for not getting back to them asap like am I a slave
2026-07-18 01:59:35
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sydney00bea
bea🐝 :
No, texting is just boring and time consuming. call or ft me, I’m not gonna text you every five minutes
2026-06-26 17:39:51
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carrrrlz
carrrrlz :
and as a fearful avoidant i’m not a texter because i’m scared to become too attached/expectant of their communication 😀 if it suddenly stops it’ll dysregulate me so i maintain the distance as a wall to protect myself from what my brain perceives as inevitable disappointment
2026-06-16 19:35:59
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_its.just.vee
Vee Rdz :
as a fearful avoidant, I am just trying to exist and heal from my trauma, that has nothing to do with the other person. And I like to take things slow so we don’t become too attached too fast without building safety and trust. Like I must be able to trust that you will respect my boundaries. I am not doing it as a test or because of some tabu and being scared of love. I am legit scared of so many things lol. Please y’all be kin to others, don’t assume because people harm u they are intentionally trying to harm you & yes boundaries keep safe, if you wish to leave that is okay but please don’t make the other person fully responsible for your happiness or unhappiness.
2026-06-18 04:13:50
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wordsareallmodelsown
Wordsareallmodelsown :
I'm an avoidant and it doesn't matter how much I tell someone that they still think they are the one to fix me, I had three years off trying to do that myself and they still don't respect it when I say I need to self-regulate, I don't know any other situation where it's ok just to dismiss an actual trauma response.
2026-06-17 09:47:43
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hobbes_the_wildcat
Mr. Pibb :
"I don't want to text because I don't want receipts of what I've said. I love having plausible deniability. I like to lie, and I like to lie to myself about not being a liar, because I can't handle accountability."
2026-06-16 18:42:43
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jo7iah
jo7iah :
You know I was gonna argue with the texting one but you’re kinda right. I absolutely hate texting and I hate when people text me with small talk or not being direct. Let’s keep things moving.
2026-06-16 13:43:16
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caitielcs
Caitie :
Actually for me, i can’t stand surface level, it’s why i hate texting.
2026-07-27 13:25:53
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y0urs.truly.444
🤍 :
Hey so delete this
2026-06-22 11:20:39
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andresitoelprofe
Andrés :
Imagine that! We actually mean "i don't know" when we say "i don't know".
2026-06-17 12:45:09
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ennimaria666
Despresso :
The texting thing though. I like texting, sure. But if my workdays are 7-12 hours long and I try to keep in contact with friends and then a romantic interest.. I don't have time for marathon texting to anyone 😅
2026-06-20 20:20:23
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fawnsofwinslow
Winnie🪽 :
it’s not even that i feel trapped most the time because of threat, it feels like im obligated to respond when i don’t have the mental energy for
2026-07-14 09:45:39
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ahawkm0th
Rach💀🌈 :
I actually feel like it’s so invasive for someone to have access to me like that 24/7, like I’m not on call for u 😭 got me feeling resentful bc people think it’s rude to not text back right away. Also if we get too close my boundaries dissolve and I get dependent and it’s hard for me to say no anymore🥰🥰🥰🥰🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪
2026-07-25 18:45:39
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lthejohnson
Lthejohnson :
I don’t wanna text but I DO want to see you all the time lol
2026-06-18 19:58:34
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icle36
icle36 :
I hate texting all day bc you dont always need to be in my mental space 😬
2026-06-25 20:05:19
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june_0f_arc
June [#1 Sora Siruha fan] :
or maybe i js dont want to text someone 24/7 🫩
2026-07-30 19:47:49
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soloscientist
LoLo. :
honestly the first one for me is false, i actually just dont be wanting to text all day😭 yes i may be on my phone, however that does not mean im obligated to text someone
2026-07-28 21:08:11
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passiflora484
passiflora484 :
Texting feels like an additional responsibility in my life and not always something I enjoy. I prefer calls or irl meetings
2026-07-18 21:57:06
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edmgrimacee
grimacee :
I don’t text because I don’t want to create a version of myself that doesn’t exist in real life. Phone me is not real me
2026-06-24 04:40:47
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..nomoremrniceguy
C:\Users\iLove\You⁸ :
the questions I hate most are "how are you feeling" I DON'T KNOW BRO. And it seems like that answer pisses ppl off but I genuinely just don't feel anything
2026-06-23 02:19:48
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erindanielle14
erindanielle14 :
How do I feel? NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS
2026-06-23 14:49:18
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_grwy_
GreyWk :
wait stop
2026-06-22 10:09:30
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umaticman
utdman :
funny thing is the avoid wont like small talk but they would bread crumb with small talk😭
2026-06-16 23:36:45
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bridget.r13
bridgetrooney0 :
Or it translates to "I don't care and want you to think I do"
2026-06-22 18:06:12
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