Yea i don’t want to text everyday in the beginning. Thats my new rule. I refuse to let my nervous system attach to someone unless they are officially my partner. I’ve also learned the hard way.
2026-06-17 02:30:28
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kaylynn.control :
Do you have any advice on how to stay in a healthy relationship
2026-07-13 17:54:03
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EVee :
Personally, I don’t wanna meet friends or family or have someone meet my friends and family until we are officially dating boyfriend and girlfriend
2026-06-17 19:17:28
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Boo Whipple :
im asexual
2026-07-13 07:20:54
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Karencita :
My problem with love bombing is that in my mind there’s no doubt on why someone would not feel I’m the love of their life, like ??? Of courseee I’m fantastic
2026-06-23 08:06:03
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court :
Everyone says avoiding love bombing, heard. But when someone does it, HOW do you stop it?! No one says this part. What do you do or say?
2026-06-19 12:11:45
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Evan- Path to Scratch Golf :
Never stop being yourself. The right guy is gonna appreciate you for that. The list seems pretty reasonable for not jumping all-in too quickly.
2026-06-17 13:25:25
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Ajanea. 🧸🎀🫧 :
honestly love these so much. & the whole “the higher the high at the beginning, the harder the crash” makes so much sense. omg. that hit home so hard with my last two “relationships”
2026-06-24 17:22:48
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Pattycakez21 :
you sound like a pisces lol
2026-06-17 15:03:16
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La Y :
This is the whole problem with dating and why I think social media is the problem too, there’s “rules” now that need to followed when Love/relationships should be easy. It really comes down to this, If the person likes you, cool and if they don’t & are acting weird then leave, it’s simple. Love shouldn’t be hard.
2026-06-18 02:32:45
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Ratna’s :
but tbh… why do we even need rules just to stop the same pain from happening again 😭 i just wanted to feel whole from the start, but i get why those rules have to exist 😭😭
2026-06-28 09:22:45
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Schaus :
I’ve tried this and relationships just can’t keep momentum 🙃
2026-06-16 16:53:56
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j. :
I wonder though with avoidants: as long as you’re not fully accessible, they feel safe. As soon as something real develops, the issues start. So regardless of what you it will show sooner or later when it gets more intense. So my strategy now I literally being more intense, having (healthy) expectations etc. to dismantle it early… if they’re avoidant they’re not gonna tell you. You’ll find out as soon as you’re consistent and available - and that’s gonna happen sooner or later.
2026-06-22 01:30:50
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tk.fatou :
Needed this reminder!!! Thanks girl
2026-06-19 14:53:15
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cestlaviejazzy :
This was super helpful thank u
2026-06-18 01:46:45
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khrys 🍵 :
did we live the same life?😭 bc our first date went for 5 hours and the next day he met my brother😭
2026-06-20 16:11:23
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Carmelo :
Do you fall fast like I do
2026-06-16 15:15:34
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Nora’s dating :
Such good rules to stand by
2026-06-16 20:22:21
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Belle Berg :
So relatable! Go off queen ✨
2026-06-17 04:09:29
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Kristin :
It’s important to understand emotional intelligence and with that comes understanding that that applying rules/boundries with dating is valid and very healthy way to approach dating.
2026-06-24 18:35:26
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dresslikeces :
I needed to hear this as a lover girl who is too scared to open up again
2026-06-20 04:07:08
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Les Femmes Social Club :
Love this content
2026-06-28 18:18:45
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