@natbelina: Basically the theme here is slowing down, pacing myself, allowing someone to reveal who they are over time #dating #datingrules #lovergirl

Erica :

Yea i don’t want to text everyday in the beginning. Thats my new rule. I refuse to let my nervous system attach to someone unless they are officially my partner. I’ve also learned the hard way.

Karencita :

My problem with love bombing is that in my mind there’s no doubt on why someone would not feel I’m the love of their life, like ??? Of courseee I’m fantastic

journeyy :

Love this!!! Love a good romcom

Moonchild :

How far apart should first and second date be?

EVee :

Personally, I don’t wanna meet friends or family or have someone meet my friends and family until we are officially dating boyfriend and girlfriend

Drea✨🦋in Spain :

I’m also a lover girl it’s exhausting tbh

Evan- Path to Scratch Golf :

Never stop being yourself. The right guy is gonna appreciate you for that. The list seems pretty reasonable for not jumping all-in too quickly.

hal.dates :

This is soooo real as a lover girl. Love the slooooooow down approach 😅

La Y :

This is the whole problem with dating and why I think social media is the problem too, there’s “rules” now that need to followed when Love/relationships should be easy. It really comes down to this, If the person likes you, cool and if they don’t & are acting weird then leave, it’s simple. Love shouldn’t be hard.

Pattycakez21 :

you sound like a pisces lol

ER :

Same. In a month, we dated every other day, went exclusive, met each others friends and some family, did sleep overs etc. Then when I asked for commitment, he refused and said he didn’t see it moving forward. So confusing.

Yessica ZB :

bonduodatingapp :

“you’re emotionally bonding yourself to a stranger” whew 😭 slowing it down really changes everything

Ajanea. 🧸🎀🫧 :

honestly love these so much. & the whole “the higher the high at the beginning, the harder the crash” makes so much sense. omg. that hit home so hard with my last two “relationships”

j. :

I wonder though with avoidants: as long as you’re not fully accessible, they feel safe. As soon as something real develops, the issues start. So regardless of what you it will show sooner or later when it gets more intense. So my strategy now I literally being more intense, having (healthy) expectations etc. to dismantle it early… if they’re avoidant they’re not gonna tell you. You’ll find out as soon as you’re consistent and available - and that’s gonna happen sooner or later.

court :

Everyone says avoiding love bombing, heard. But when someone does it, HOW do you stop it?! No one says this part. What do you do or say?

lovergirltiina :

Pacing + seeing the person for who they are, not who they say they want to be, is an absolute must when dating as a lovergirl !

Ashlee Cruz :

Next video should be about questions you ask on dates when getting to know someone !

tk.fatou :

Needed this reminder!!! Thanks girl

cestlaviejazzy :

This was super helpful thank u

Schaus :

I’ve tried this and relationships just can’t keep momentum 🙃

Carmelo :

Do you fall fast like I do

Ratna’s :

but tbh… why do we even need rules just to stop the same pain from happening again 😭 i just wanted to feel whole from the start, but i get why those rules have to exist 😭😭

S A M A N T H A :

I love everything that you’re saying. This is so spot on!

Nora’s dating :

Such good rules to stand by