@herworthclub: One of the saddest things an abandonment wound does is make you stop choosing yourself. You meet someone. You like them. You’re excited. The connection feels good. And then without even realizing it… You stop asking: “Do I actually like this person?” And start asking: “Do they like me?” Now you’re not evaluating the relationship. You’re auditioning for it. You’re not deciding if they’re aligned. You’re trying to make sure you’re chosen. You start paying attention to their interest more than your own. Their feelings more than your own. Their approval more than your own. And little by little… You leave yourself behind. That’s why so many women end up in relationships that don’t even make them happy. Because somewhere along the way, being chosen became more important than choosing. Read that again. Being chosen became more important than choosing. And that’s where self-abandonment begins. Not when you text first. Not when you double text. Not when you get attached. When you stop asking what YOU want. ✨ Feminine Reboot was created for the woman who’s tired of losing herself every time she likes someone. Comment REBOOT if you’re ready to come back home to yourself. Xoxo🧚♀️✨ Glow Mother