@therealniccoy: What role did you get assigned in your family: peacemaker, messenger, or fixer? 👀👇 #peacekeeper #triangulation #avoidant #healing #Relationship
Something I didn’t realize until my 30s and it was like a brick wall hitting me at 100 mph. I was the peacekeeper, the fixer, the therapist, the parentified eldest daughter. And i took those roles into adulthood - it took a long time to finally realize I am not responsible for other people’s emotions or relationships.
2026-06-18 01:14:17
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jeff munger :
bam there it is,that message hit me hard because it describes the last 23 years of my life. 💯
2026-06-20 19:43:02
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☀️Laura Leigh From Tennessee :
This is the absolute truth. I was given this role at birth.
2026-06-19 11:30:06
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David K :
You are speaking directly to me, as I was nodding all through this post. I find myself in that dynamic, and agree with you, I need to step back. 😎🌹🇨🇦
2026-06-16 17:03:29
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EchoesofBecoming :
The Karpman triangle!
2026-06-16 17:00:35
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khaosfountain :
if 3 is a crowd then.... whats 9? 😂😂😂
2026-06-16 23:44:12
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MAZZ93 :
Omg me me me 😂 now that I’m leaving welp is all falling down 😳
2026-06-16 16:55:31
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selvamuthub :
Exactly 💯
2026-06-18 06:04:46
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𝘋𝘪𝘦˙ :
every spiritually intuitive person i've told about The Manifestation Switch by Selena Smith came back with the same sentence: how did i not know about this sooner
2026-06-18 11:55:36
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GANNA MA :
great teaching my friend supporting from Pennsylvania G7 peace to you and your family
2026-06-17 19:31:17
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The_Vagas_nerve_CNX :
roll call for the peace keeping interpreter of the family, yes present ✨
2026-06-18 01:17:11
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iluvprettythings'ncleverwords :
Felt this, so big!
2026-06-16 15:41:03
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patriciogangsta :
I listened
2026-06-18 00:18:42
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anemoia 🇫🇮🇸🇪🇦🇺 :
My dad died when I was 8 and ever since I’ve been the middle man between my mum and older brother. My friend and ex sister in law got roped in when she met my brother almost 30 years ago. She’s divorced from my brother but her and I are still trying to withdraw from the relay. They’re in the Nordics while I’m in Australia which makes it extra interesting. I’m in Australia for a reason.
2026-06-18 02:38:09
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first
2026-06-16 15:42:19
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Y!! :
You look like Jennifer Esposito
2026-06-16 23:49:06
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soul fruit :
where are you taking us😭
2026-06-16 22:15:21
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DIzZLE :
Your the only one that covers any of this. Thank you
2026-06-17 04:34:07
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Chris :
Exactly 💯
2026-06-17 11:37:18
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Ward :
ABSOLUTELY 💯
2026-06-17 03:23:11
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nandudukevin :
2026-06-17 09:32:46
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nandudukevin :
someone who has the same name as yours just followed me. was exited at first until...😭
2026-06-17 09:30:55
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folded.comment :
jeebus, i forgot about this
2026-06-18 02:06:41
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