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ItsKatie :
My husband is my PARTNER. Meaning we lean on each other.
2026-06-17 16:15:32
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Totallyahater :
Interdependent relationships are nonhierarchical
2026-06-17 04:11:07
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Kwest :
I think submitting to someone doesn’t mean you’re inferior to that person. It means you trust that person to decide for you. I do think a 50/50 partnership is always better than
2026-06-17 13:01:43
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pseudoserenity :
I’m so glad that you’re educating people on this. It’s severely needed.
2026-06-17 03:06:36
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Adan Gomez :
Thank you for the well articulated distinction, I haven’t heard it framed this way before and it makes sense the nuance you’re pointing out. I appreciate your content ever since i started following recently. it’s helping me think more carefully about myself politically, my own relationships, and the language I use around them.
2026-06-17 09:30:01
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nowayyy808 :
I love your takes please never stop making feminist content. Please and thank you ~ 🙏 💙
2026-06-16 22:07:57
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Fever Fawn :
ohhh you’re cooking!! love your takes always
2026-06-19 18:00:29
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fay’s year of projects :
oh this is good
2026-06-23 16:06:05
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mandie.mooshie :
Thank you 😊. I appreciate you bringing a new perspective
2026-06-18 11:48:49
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crassusdidnothingwrong :
Some people are also confusing being a stay at home parent/partner and being a trad wife. There can obviously be power dynamic issues in the former, but they’re baked into the latter.
2026-06-16 16:19:03
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chico :
my mum says she wants to be a tradwife but she already failed cause id say shes the one that holds more authority in my family and she has a full time job😭
2026-06-16 16:01:30
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cranberrycooler :
Thank you!! I never liked the 'trad' in tradwife, because traditional to who?
2026-06-16 18:08:12
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MrIncandenza :
Can you speak on chapter 9 of From Margin to Center by bell hooks. I’m fascinated by the booktok *discourse* on romantasy involving morally gray mmc & whether it’s acceptable or neutral in terms of the general impact on women
2026-06-16 16:48:32
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user1305891265835 :
Agree marriage should be a mutually supportive arrangement
2026-06-18 04:21:24
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daisy_dana123 :
💯💯💯
2026-06-18 23:11:06
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Peeira dos Lobos :
Its a kink. Gender play and D/S. Stop pretending its “godly”, its a kink.
2026-06-17 05:12:29
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every man woman and child :
I'm a feminist and I follow Trad wife content on Tiktok for study. they work HARD!!! Chef, farmer, tailor, childcare specialist, nurse, sex worker, entertainer, therapist, cleaner, driver etc. they make so many decisions all while submitting to their husband. it's such a strange role because its compensation structure isn't monetary. they are paid in 'love' or shelter, food, community that they have to sustain.
2026-06-16 15:55:27
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kylie the bard :
just want to include that the trad wive movement uses benevolent sexism to market this ideology. that being born into a female body makes you divine and therefore your divinity must come through in "divine feminine" ways and you require the protection of someone born into a male body taking on the role of what patriarchy deems masculinity.
2026-06-17 02:09:29
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beet0043nfw :
i saw someone today citing dworkin's argument that marriage is the same as sex work. and i just thought, sure, if women have no agency and no independent desire for sex outside of whatever "compensation" structure exists through the marriage, perhaps that's true. but if they do have some measure of agency and independent sexual desires, it's definitely not. there are certainly ways to criticize the institution of marriage without reverting to these sorts of grossly oversimplified statements.
2026-06-16 15:44:43
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consideryourhumanity :
One of my favorite books is “No Contest”. Kohn makes what I find to be a very convincing argument that competition is not inherent to the human condition, or at least not nearly as much as that of cooperation. In the hyper-individualist society we have been sold a lie that mutuality isn’t possible—that one must submit to another in the competition of life. However, if cooperation is the default as Kohn argues, mutualistic heterosexual relationships suddenly become far more attainable.
2026-06-17 19:13:29
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@fijifrosty :
Very clear comparison and contrast. I think one phenomenon that might be muddying the discussion is the “it’s embarrassing to be dating men” trend and the like. Women espousing this perspective appear to be advocating hyper individualism and ridiculing heterosexual relationships and marriage.
2026-06-17 23:25:42
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