@bustuh: This is a dynamic that is fairly easy to address and correct, STOP BEING CONVENIENT, just be yourself! #avoidant #anxiousattachment #relationshipadvice101 #boundaries

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theblessingreport
The Blessing Report :
Reverse psychology in a relationship is crazy
2026-06-16 21:14:57
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shaunseven2
Shaun :
It is the most unnatural thing but a few weeks in and he is double texting, texting first, doing all the initiating. I’m busy all the time now with friends and family. For once my attention isn’t guaranteed. But it wasn’t easy because I didn’t know if I pulled back if he’d step up. But eventually I was so tired that either was better than chasing. Having my self-respect back is the first major win that feels good.
2026-06-16 20:16:54
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vanai_u
ivana :
no, this guy was just not interested 🤷🏼‍♀️
2026-06-20 04:24:24
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zhtyqr
zhtyqr :
Someone who “truly” loved you deeply would never be avoidant.
2026-06-17 17:59:50
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thewillowriley
Willow Riley :
This is so true. I literally put him on a pedastal. My life was centered around him and I love all sight of myself!
2026-06-16 21:02:09
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kenzieinthesky
CloudWalker :
Should I tell him I’m backing off then, or go silently and wait?
2026-06-18 01:11:56
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teresataylormusic
Teresa Taylor- Melody queen 🎶 :
They find consistency boring unfortunately
2026-06-17 21:54:20
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rjflowers0
rjflowers0 :
This is too much! I’m not dating just to date! I’m not dealing with this.
2026-06-16 19:41:51
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thebestleroux1
The best Leroux :
Yes ply into the games and never have a solid relationship. Just move on
2026-06-17 01:52:36
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jado0132
Jado132 :
I did learn that consistency IS what I needed more than reassurance.
2026-06-16 23:25:40
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iamkweenlegacy
♏️👑FutureMillionaireKween👑♐️ :
This is exactly what I’ve been doing, not being convenient, doing me and living life!
2026-06-16 16:03:12
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fullsendbarrett
 :
Dude you are hella smart
2026-06-17 19:48:39
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colxmbiana29
CAM.ILAAA :
I don’t like playing games with a person that I love … thank you but no thank you!
2026-06-17 13:47:22
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chelsea_hyacinth
Chelsea :
So draining😩
2026-06-20 01:59:24
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shaira__
Shai :
I messed up by being super open & honest with him but in the end he really messed up by playing in my face so now he’s blocked indefinitely
2026-06-17 02:25:20
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prudeybee
Jöy❣️ :
I aim to be inconvenient to anyone who is inconsistent 😂😂😂
2026-06-18 16:11:10
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ahduh24
Ah duh :
Yes , it feels like a mind game
2026-06-20 04:39:30
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lakeishaphillips43
Keisha :
you're dead on I finally stopped being everything that you listed and I finally had a day where my heart doesn't feel heavy but I'm still hurt
2026-06-17 00:14:32
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sphiwe_inukateapreneur
Sphiwe Inuka /Teapreneur :
Well said
2026-06-18 05:23:46
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tshepisoyabakwena
tshepisoyabakwena :
Hell No…may this never cross my path ever again 🙅🏽‍♀️
2026-06-19 15:36:27
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thelaurabarrett
Laura Barrett :
I thanked my husband for leaving me today. Didn't say why, just "thank you for leaving me." I grew and am better if he comes back or not.
2026-06-17 02:59:28
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myworlddd99
Onion's mom💛 :
how can I ask for consistency? is it even a right to ask for this need of mine? should I just walk away?
2026-06-17 20:45:06
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ari_feliu85
🇺🇸🇨🇺Ari✈️🫶 :
I needed that today. Eye opening! I don’t even know why I continue to try. 😢
2026-06-17 14:11:10
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gentlesoulshift
Mukaji-Bonbon 🧿🇨🇩🇺🇸 :
i agree ,
2026-06-17 00:58:34
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anonymissuzer
AnonymissUzer :
Then why is she not contacting after 3 weeks when she proposed a vague future date?
2026-06-17 03:55:22
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