@mntejadaaa: i have so much more thoughts but i’ll leave it at that hahaha a little psa to hyper-independent girlies: it’s okay to slowly learn how to lead with your heart again, so your mind doesn’t always have to do all the work of keeping you safe. 🫶🏻

🐣 :

I’m the distant, angry and independent eldest daughter 🥺

sssssasai :

“this self sabotages us sometimes” 💯

Nixi_erin :

I feel seen🥺

Marnelia :

September po ba birthday niyo? 🙈

leo... :

because we love deeply but don't want to burden people hays ang hirap.😔

timus :

HUGS TO ALL OF USSS 🥹🫂

spamsilog :

crying rn

Shewrites :

Bakit ganitong oras po?🥹🤧 People often think hyper-independence is confidence or pagiging strong, but most of the time it's actually a trauma response. We learned not to depend on anyone because we had to figure things out on our own way too early. Now even when we're struggling, asking for help feels harder than carrying everything alone. Thank you for putting this into words.❤️‍🩹

matcha_latte :

the fucking timing is crazy

tiredpenguinbye :

we got so used to carrying everything ourselves.

elatot :

May mga naging hyper independent din ba dito nung nag enter ng adulting kasi yung isang parent nila is sobrang strict to the point na di ka na napatry ng mga bagay bagay?

_natfreya :

uninvolve me

✨LN💫 :

Pinakinggan ko yung puso ko, ayun nasaktan ng todo. So ayun, super saiyan hyper independent na 😮‍💨

ayieshaaa :

Sa jowa relationship naman, we are used to be in the survival mode din 😂

mj :

thank you for sharing this, i agree on all points, worth it to repost 🫶🏻

𝓓𝓮𝓬𝓪𝓯 :

I needed to hear this 🥹 thank you

Teerak Misu :

Thank you so much for this 🫶 May we all win in life

Malaya :

hey so im gonna cry

moo :

minsan okay lang makinig sa puso mo. late ko na nakita to ☹️

baggy :

d ko pa ntatapos umiyak nko hahahha

BEAR 🧸 :

The sad part of being hyperindependent and you let someone in to your life, is the time that person betrays you or suddenly stops talking to you

Ḥºɲəƴ :

tysm. We feel seen.

hellokitz :

I love thisss! Thank you. 🥺🥰

kvt ᯓ⟡ :