@k45.tattoo: It makes me feel weird to post this but I think it’s not talked about enough. I’m not an expert but these are the things I wish someone told my younger self about when I was dealing with loss. Greiving looks different in everyone but there are some common things I’ve seen happen that should be avoided

natiii*🇩🇪🇪🇹💽 :

Don't make a Permamnent decision to a temporary problem

Arthur :

It’s beautiful how you’ve honoured your brother this way. What would you say from your experience is the best thing to say to a grieving friend? I’ve always stuck to saying it will be okay but I feel like that’s not enough and doesent seem comforting

qwerties :

my grandma died a while ago due to cancer, I never really cared about her till then I remembered her as the angry old woman who I couldn't speak to(I couldn't speak my native language) I still remember how I woke up and I thought I wouldn't really care since I hated her at the time but I kept sobbing uncontrollably on the way there, just staring at the ground and crying then stopping then crying again after that I didn't really cry even when I was in her funeral and only after her death did my dad tell me she never got mad at me or anyone and she was just loud. I didn't really think about her till recently I wish I could just talk to her one more time and bond for once I feel like I never really cared about her till she became a reason to cru

Grim :

"K45 is my late brother Kyles halo 3 clantag, this account is to honor him"

amraa0802 :

ive lost my grandpa this march, i didnt really show much affection to him but he was my role model. the little math book he gave me helped a lot during tests, gosh i still miss him to this day. my grandpa was a physicist and my grandma was a mathematician, it was straight out of a movie cause they met in the same school. he gave me about 60 bucks before passing away. i remember thinking "he'll get over it like he always does", then on a sunday morning he passed away. life is fragile, like he said. be greatful for what you have, dont grieve for what was taken away is my message here.

🪞🐈‍⬛🦐Cheshire kitty⭐️📜✒️ :

I really appreciate you making this. It can be so hard to live after experiencing loss; it really changes you (sometimes it can bring good change too, but you really have to wait to truly see it...). It's very important to take one's time while healing, lest grief creeps up on you later on :/ Even though I've never known your brother, I'm 100% sure help would be so proud of who you are and what you're doping for others. Keep fighting🫂❤️

Hyfreid | OPEN COMMISSIONS :

I'm afraid to lose them, so I'll love them always regardless

🐤🦉ℒℯ𝒶𝓃𝒹𝓇𝒶🦦🐒 :

i lost my mom at 14 bruv

Leni!! 🏀☀️ :

I talk about him to everyone I just want them to know how great of a guy he was

Zachery :

This is very informative. I hope it reaches those who need it. There’s also another version that not many people like to talk about and some don’t understand. Living grief. Grief for someone that is no longer in your life but is still alive. It’s easy to reach out, but harder once the consequences are felt. What is more difficult? Resisting the pull to reach out, or the fallout of the decision on failing to wall off the person from your life

𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆟 𓆝 𓆝 𓆟 𓆞 𓆟 𓆝 :

Dick Grayson :

this came at the perfect time, my mother just passed on the 20th. thank you K45.

Alan ☆彡♾️🔃 /♾️💙ミ :

my friend passed away from cancer i am trying my best

misakookie :

My dad died and trust me it does get better but the feeling never goes away

Kreatin :

I am not ready for the day that i have to follow these, im not ready at all 🫩

✪Ray⚓︎ :

As someone who turned to substances to deal with loss, it’s something that I still struggle with to this day to not use as a coping mechanism. Take a walk, call that friend that understands you like no one else, get an ice cream, go see that movie you’ve been thinking about. appreciate the world around you, it’s a lot brighter without the fog of substances <3

Pistachio Ice Cream 2 :

I would say first but this is a serious post

sixba :

You actually helped me Man. Tysm❤️

userpeevo :

Forgot to mention avoiding escapism

Fiddler :

Time heals everything

marilou :

Im bawling my eyes OUT