@brains.secret: Being emotionally intelligent means you can never fully hate someone who has hurt you because you always try to understand why this person is the way they are #brain #mind #mindset #psychology #relateable
Being emotionally intelligent means that you also see and understand people have bad intentions and forgiveness is not always an option but teaching them a lesson is.
2026-06-17 09:30:11
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Doha :
Being emotionally intelligent means you never search for why that person hurt you because it’s none of your business
2026-06-17 12:39:23
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Anonymous Story Teller :
Being emotionally intelligent means that you know that revenge is for the weak, and forgiveness is for the strong
2026-06-18 09:51:21
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Wina :
Even if there is a reason behind their behaviour (bc there always is) they still treated you bad, don’t let others treat u bad only bc of their reasons
2026-06-18 07:13:13
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meena_na_ru87 :
Mhmm, yes and no. You see where their pain and insecurities come from but it’s also ok to acknowledge that at the end of the day, no matter how much trauma they’ve seen in life.. as adults they can still make the decision to do better and make better choices. 🤷🏻♀️Enduring difficulties in life doesn’t give you a free pass to be horrible.
2026-06-17 23:35:59
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yoghurtpizza :
Life is so easy when you understand whatever someone says to you is a mirror of their internal state. It is NEVER about you.
2026-06-17 17:14:06
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🦪 :
I was checking his socials more than I was checking in with myself, and after reading My Boy My Toy by Kali Avalore I saw how unhealthy that really was.
2026-06-17 06:50:57
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Rickje :
Annoying af really. We just have to accept that not everyone is emotional intelligent. Not everyone has the capacity to evaluate the situation and understand what they did wrong. Its hard to grasp sometimes, but you just have to adjust to it and hope you can help them along the way.
2026-06-17 13:52:33
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That Momo :
Yeah, not my case. I can be as empathetic as possible but if you say or do one thing that hurt me badly I’ll remember that every time I see you and if we have a fight I’ll 100% bring it up
2026-06-18 02:06:26
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Wolvie :
the more understanding your trying to be the more you will ruin yourself over explaning how abuse should be validated
2026-06-17 05:55:15
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trash_panda :
being emotionally intelligent is understanding that you can hate someone who's hurt you because your feelings are valid and it doesn't matter why.
2026-06-18 03:19:34
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🖤 :
Being emotionally intelligent is seeing past your mom’s involuntary manipulation and gaslighting realizing her parents treated her the same way, it’s seeing past your dad’s anxiety because his parents were overbearing. It’s realizing only you can break the cycle but not wanting to hurt anyone
2026-06-18 09:32:07
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Joe Colombo :
I guess I’m not intelligent enough then lol
2026-06-16 22:50:36
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MAYBUR :
When others misunderstand you and you are unable to explain, stop trying to justify it and leave them to their own prejudices.
2026-06-17 13:40:06
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◇Daydream◇ :
Usually, yes, but I gave up on one specific person. I might hate them, not dislike but hate.
2026-06-18 09:35:08
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NO ILLUSIONS :
I agree
2026-06-18 07:46:48
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Shmuel ;) :
There is something called judgment it is way worse than hate on someone
2026-06-17 03:01:55
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Violet 🏳️🌈 :
Me understanding the situation any better will not stop me from hating you if you’ve wronged me in way that would make me hate you
2026-06-17 14:18:35
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🖤Shannon🖤 :
Too empathetic is my problem. But I don’t hate anyone. I let karma take care of them for me ✌🏻
2026-06-17 20:58:50
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john :
TF I can't 🤣 I understand the y😁 but can't understand y they didn't stop 😳 that means pure evil to me and I get to hate one thing and that's evil 😆
2026-06-16 19:57:34
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Geni :
I'm the most emotionally intelligent person to ever walk this planet
2026-06-18 09:39:29
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Aaron Stroud :
what is this song? I like it
2026-06-18 02:17:25
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Skye :
Worst feeling , I hate this . How can I change it ? My bf is not good to me , and I truly understand it . But I can’t leave him right now , not because love him , can’t because feel sorry for him only he had bad situations
2026-06-17 23:06:40
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