@kinacptsdtherapist: If you’re someone with attachment trauma, or a therapist who supports people with attachment trauma, check out the workbook I just published: The Felt Sense Attachment Workbook. 💚

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tsuga_heterophylla
Mels :
Is this part of why being perceived is so humiliating?
2026-06-17 01:10:39
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tishasaysrelax_
Tisha :
“Why didn’t you call me” I think I forget I exist to others?
2026-06-16 19:15:33
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genesis.dreams
Genesis 皿 :
Sometimes I feel like I’m in a body of water where I’m watching things happen above me but I don’t reach the surface, I’m just sitting there in a liminal space
2026-06-26 20:28:05
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legallycameron
Cam :
I feel like I "log on" when I'm with others and turn on the correct personality, but when I'm alone I log off and just dissociate into a world where no one and nothing exists
2026-06-16 22:23:34
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lay.m4257
Lay ♡ :
It’s to the point where being acknowledged by others upsets me. I’m comfortable in my invisibility. I can exist without pressure
2026-06-16 22:57:34
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courtneybrownpierce
courtneybrownpierce :
Not only did my parents not take the time to know me, they projected negative labels onto me and made false assumptions about me.
2026-06-17 01:20:44
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keylimemagpie
KeyLimeMagpie :
Is this why I assume in forgettable to people? It actually throws me when I see someone from my high school days and they warmly remember me from back in the day.
2026-06-16 17:51:05
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user3780031288549
tatwd :
I always have had trouble with the idea that I actually exist to other people. Like, the fact that other people think about me and have memories of me is kinda wild sometimes. That and I kind of forget that I have a face that is recognizable and that’s what people see when they look at me, and not just the amorphous blob I always picture myself as
2026-06-16 20:54:43
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energizedcrystals
Energized Crystals :
Do I appreciate all of your videos on emotional neglect: yes. Also. OH
2026-06-16 18:02:04
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wander_thisway
amber jean :
I feel like people only engage with me out of pity, or perceived obligation. I realized that I often go days, or weeks without communicating with anyone at all. if anything happened to me, how long before anyone realizes? I don't feel like i know who I am, and I'm 45. even down to knowing what clothes or style I like or have. I have no idea
2026-06-16 22:38:38
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itistrueok
viridianescape :
‘You’re shy’ ‘Come out of your shell’ you can see me?
2026-06-17 17:15:48
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loracdl
༺ᶜᵃʳᵒˡ༻ :
I used to firmly believe I wouldn't turn adult. not die, just cease existing one day before reaching 18. that's how disconnected I was from any sense of self. I wish my mom knew english so I could sent her this video...
2026-06-17 21:50:15
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baek_evelyn
Baek Evelyn :
Im always super suprised when people speak positively about me. Like I never even imagined that someone would care to pay attention to the things I’m doing and remembers
2026-06-17 23:38:39
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stephernie84
Steph °o° :
I have always felt like the “out of sight, out of mind” friend and am always surprised when friends reach out to me
2026-06-21 05:13:25
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myname.is.v
My Name is V 🧿 :
You’re talking and telling a story and people keep interrupting you and nobody even listens so you just stop talking. That feeling but it’s your whole life. 😮‍💨
2026-06-26 18:47:52
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piratefairy92
MaxRide92 :
I was always so embarrassed that I do maladaptive daydreaming ever since I was a kid and I finally opened up to my boyfriend about it after years and explained one that was in my head at the time and his first words were “I love you, thank you for letting me see your world”😭🥰 being seen is being loved
2026-06-18 17:06:37
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yob4826
Yob 🧿 :
YES, I have struggled forever with just reacting and mirroring people around me or media I have watched. Never really being able to form a solid identify that comes from my own brain and ideas.
2026-06-26 11:51:27
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imfallingapart2022
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For my mental health this is AI (this is me😂)
2026-06-26 18:30:20
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appleuser377951062
NYLA02 :
For me, as an adult now, it is actually so difficult to feel and acknowledge that my words and actions can hurt people. I feel so detached from being a impactful, important being, that this as a concept actually confuses and scares me, “I’m a 21 year old woman, what do you mean my words mean something to my surrounding?!” That’s how I feel.
2026-06-18 20:03:45
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e971807
ellie🫀 :
“I am an observer in this world, not a participant”, felt at your deepest core.
2026-06-17 21:03:58
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marthaswtewarts90
marthastewarts90sbob :
I’m genuinely confused when people recognize me
2026-06-16 20:40:27
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user93710247463233
user9337394938269 :
i called my mom crying the other night and she started yelling at me lmfao
2026-06-17 02:54:21
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jaysmilla
Will :
"your mind and heart are held in the mind and heart of another". I never experienced this one single time in my entire childhood.
2026-06-16 20:55:23
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marbreck
Marbreck :
Out of sight = does not exist. No one to centre/serve = standby in wait mode, self and home neglected.
2026-06-17 15:14:25
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iiibiii6
B🔻🇩🇿 :
i don't see myself as part of anyone's life, and it comes with huge sense of détachement
2026-06-18 06:25:34
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