The Pottymouth Guru
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Mike H :
…why does it seem like, in this example, only one of the people actually cares about the relationship?
2026-06-16 20:00:33
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kiki :
No one talks about what healing looks like for these partners. The anxious and avoidant dynamic is talked about in nauseam but no one explains what it looks like after that dynamic is healed or how to get there
2026-06-17 15:37:12
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The Pottymouth Guru :
The relationship isn't creating the wound. It's exposing the places where healing is still needed. ❤️🤟🏻
2026-06-16 17:46:52
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shaunakanner :
This is the best explanation of this dynamic. Thank you for your work.
2026-06-16 20:07:39
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Jackie :
You’re talking about the anxious/avoidant loop aren’t you? I know it well.
2026-06-16 19:09:31
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Kindahuman :
I guess this really is a for you page.
2026-07-18 16:25:03
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Nicky :
My husband realised this before me and put time into learning how to not pursue when I get distant, which has allowed me to come closer without pressure, which then fills his cup and mine at the same time. He is truly amazing.
2026-06-20 02:13:55
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Rink :
Discovering Integrated attachment theory was a literal life changing experience for me and all of my relationships, including the relationship I have with myself 💖
2026-06-16 22:13:26
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Katie Blondin :
And you fix this how. 🤨
2026-06-16 19:18:45
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karijo2035 :
Love this! This is definitely my husband and I and we both been in a lot of Therapy so now I'm not equating his distance too. I'm not worthy of love and he's not equating me needing connection as a threat. But it's still hard cause I gotta talk myself through my own issues and realize his attachment doesn't equal my Worth and he has to do the same. We are now empty nesting together and it's been a crazy dynamic and we're both so damn codependent too… We probably should've got divorced, but unfortunately, we love each other like crazy… Lol therapies helped a lot.
2026-06-16 19:27:24
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Chachski :
I thought i was listening to help improve my marriage.....turns out my wife is having to deal with me being both a lover earner and a need nobody child. big oof!
2026-06-16 19:02:55
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RO 🌷🌷🌷 :
can you spend a little more time giving examples on potential resolution? I understand the problem perfectly, it's how to fix that we are looking for
2026-06-17 15:59:01
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FightMe :
Dang, you didn’t have to call out my current relationship like that 😅
2026-06-17 02:50:54
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Shoshana :
and why i am both? 🫠
2026-08-11 14:54:02
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Eighth Unbound :
Sounds like the beginning of a TwinFlame journey
2026-06-17 00:15:44
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kirko :
What if im both
2026-06-16 22:11:50
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🇨🇦Ché🕊 :
what happens after the hardest part?! 😩😩 this is my life. im the earn love child, my hubby is pulling back..
2026-07-26 20:31:55
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C.D :
I have grown from the earn love one into the need nobody one 😬
2026-06-28 21:52:18
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Mike 🇳🇿 :
Sometimes I think I'm a unique individual and then I watch videos like this and have someone describe my relationship.
2026-06-17 05:59:22
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_a_theis :
Uh.... What is it called when you feel like you're both in one body??? Asking for a friend. 👀
2026-06-18 14:51:20
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Cheryl :
Yeah… I figured that out early on. At some point I just wanted accountability- got none of that either. Now, I’m just into connecting to myself. I’m enuf for me
2026-06-17 06:35:11
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Pesce :
My last situationship 😖
2026-06-16 18:36:19
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Diana :
oh no my whole marriage lol
2026-07-24 22:21:58
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greyrockai :
"partner's not the source tho. just where the alarm goes off"
2026-06-17 01:21:34
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Hasslewind :
My problem is that I'm both.
2026-06-28 06:13:09
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