Rachel | Relationship Coach ✨
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Tuesday 16 June 2026 18:33:28 GMT
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scaredycatguide :
Yep, I did all of these things in my 30s before realizing I'm an FA. (or knowing what it was). It's a shame too cus now in my 40s I have my shit figured out and the dating pool is a shallow puddle.
2026-06-16 22:45:24
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Specky Knuckle :
Run, keep running and never look back. They will destroy you 😫
2026-06-17 10:01:09
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Nikki Tontelle :
I gave a man an out once 😂. We had an amazing date and I felt he was off the next day. By evening I was ready to burn it all to the ground ( it's only funny now because I caught myself doing it ). He was so confused. He ignored the " break up " message and went on to explain his day . That was the last time I did that . I have trouble with discomfort / uncertainty/ ambiguity so I run . I have been forcing myself to stay . My partner not always being available also forces me to practice sitting in ambiguity. Is it easy, no I spiral. But I spiral in my diary etc but regulate with him. I've gotten good at catching myself before ruining anything 🙂. It's really hard though
2026-06-19 12:01:15
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yorkshiredroneman :
This is just labelling, and by extension, excusing bad behaviour.
2026-06-17 22:34:45
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km2144_ :
So what exactly are you supposed to do as a partner here? What do they actually expect, and what are their needs? Because if you pursue them, they don't like it, but if you don't, that's wrong too.
2026-06-18 18:27:37
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Pimberly :
Can they have both fearful and dismissive?
2026-06-17 01:47:02
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💋N😻❤️🩹 :
Reading The Pullback Effect made me realize I wasn’t the ‘good guy’ in the relationship. I was just predictable, overly available, and emotionally weak. This book didn’t teach me how to win her back it showed me why I lost her in the first place and how to never be that guy again.
2026-06-27 00:11:16
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CTR :
Do you only work with fearful avoidant attachment style?
2026-06-16 22:44:36
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jiminicricket :
he convinced himself that I was going to use his past against him, I was never a part of it so why would I? I had to keep reminding him to stay present and even then, that felt like pressure on him 🤦♀️eventually it consumed him so much he sabotaged it because thats where hes stuck
2026-06-17 02:17:44
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Avan :
One of the biggest scam out there is the belief or make belief that we are slaves of the subconscious
2026-06-17 04:08:27
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Dhanishgb :
How to lean more secure?
2026-06-17 11:17:43
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El Groominater ( Josue Angel) :
I do that sometimes
2026-06-21 16:47:32
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Darby :
So, unintentionally, they create no-win situations where the outcome is that they leave to protect themselves or they force their partner to leave to protect themselves. How is this fair to their partner and how does the FA ever expect to stay in a relationship using these types of strategies?
2026-06-26 18:22:58
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nickie :
Some parts of The Pullback Effect hit really hard. It doesn’t sugarcoat anything. It shows you the reality of how attraction and power actually work in relationships.
2026-06-27 00:11:15
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