you’re not alone
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dannyb0y88 :
I lost my Dad (44) when I was 11 and then I lost my Mum (53) when I was 27, I’m now 37 and still struggle with it at times.
2026-07-27 06:10:38
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Ph D. Soos :
10 years without my dad. and idk why, but this last week. ive been feeling it as hard as I did for those first few years. i miss him so much. I wish he was here to see how son has grown. how my niece and nephew have grown and im about to have another nephew in a few weeks. he missed so much he should have been here for
2026-07-27 03:44:03
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sleepysiren18 :
I lost my dad at 5 and I’m 18 now I swear it’s affected every single part of my life
2026-07-27 06:01:19
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cam:) :
It has unfortunately caused me to experience envy for those who have both of their parents *and* struggle to have empathy for others in situations involving their parents that seem so minuscule in comparison. It’s not something I’m proud of but it’s the way the grief/trauma has manifested itself.
2026-06-17 18:52:19
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gigi.kelinci :
It's extremely difficult and I wish I can talk about it. But in other hand. I don't want them to feel bad of what happened because I feel like I'm no one responsibility and I should stand as an adult meanwhile I still needs many guidance. And it become worse because you never feel like someone knows you like your mother did, or even back then, there are still a lot of things your mother doesn't know about you. So try imagine having a family trying to substitute that part meanwhile I don't want to be put as a burden. Most of the times I feel bad of myself but I also don't want to stuck in this position and I need to show up for my sister who lost her mom at 3 years old. It is quite devastating because you feel like no one is responsible fo what happened and I don't feel like I want to be responsible of my life too.
2026-07-27 10:35:04
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jaemetal043 :
i found dating SO HARD after i lost my dad.. no one understood the grief im constantly swimming in. And then i met my fiancé, and he lost his mom and he understood exactly how i was feeling
2026-06-16 18:59:39
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jessicakinkead :
You’re the first person I’ve heard say out loud about paranoia about every other person you love passing. My dad died last year it’s so hard. Thank you for sharing!
2026-06-17 02:56:26
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Kelley77 :
Just lost my dad at 24 and social media is the only place I can find people who relate
2026-06-17 19:29:28
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Gemzee33 | Twitch Affiliate 💕 :
I was 23 when mum and dad died. I still worry those I love are going to leave me and die. I envy others who still have their parents... I'm 35 now, I've lived so much life without them and became a mum for the first time without them there to support and guide me.
2026-07-25 20:10:16
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ero :
My dad died when I was still learning how to be a human being (I was 2) and it’s affected me in so many ways and ive not met a single person who actually relates to my specific situation
2026-07-25 17:07:35
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Keila Lopez :
Someone told me “well it’s okay we are meant to lose our parents” they are 53, my mom had just turned 50, and I was only 27. Both of their parents are still alive:(
2026-06-16 18:58:54
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Karen :
The paranoia that everyone I love is going to die. I haven’t heard anyone else relate to it. Thank you ❤️
2026-06-17 13:38:56
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Tori :
I lost my dad at 8, he was 27. I remember growing up and thinking I always dreaded the day I turned 27. I’m 28 now and the fact I’ve outlived my dad is still a crazy thought to me!! I’ve missed him everyday since, but it’s gotten easier with time.
2026-06-17 15:31:43
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Yani Nicole :
nobody talks about the anger in grief. yes, the paranoia of everyone passing away & the depression of someone leaving and the feeling of being alone. But the Anger! The anger of someone having their mom, the anger of not remembering their face or voice anymore, the anger of if it’s your fault or not
2026-06-19 17:33:16
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🧚♀️aiti<3 |-/ :
My mom died when I was 17, I had just turned 17 a month prior. I lost her on Christmas Eve. My jealousy is the worst around the holidays. It’s gotten better but every year I catch myself going “why do they get their mom and I don’t?”
2026-07-22 14:28:41
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Tiana :
i just lost my dad yesterday. i am 17 years old. i’ve never felt this much pain in my entire life. he was my best friend💓🕊️
2026-07-03 02:39:45
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Lauryn Kenndy Heinz :
I see so many comments about the envy for others with their parents still alive. And man let me tell you I feel that so very deeply I hate being out in public and seeing girls with their moms it shatters me inside makes this ball in my stomach, my chest gets tight and I just want to scream why me why did I have to lose my mom and theirs get to go on living. I will spend the rest of my life feeling this way and it’s nothing against these people it’s the way my grief works I will never get over losing my mother I will spend the rest of my life angry that I don’t get to have her here with me that I will get older and she will stay the same age.
2026-07-21 03:51:45
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Madison 🌻 | WFHM :
Both of my parents passed a week apart when I was 25. Im an only child, all of my grandparents are also passed and my parents weren’t married at all so I was the only person “left” in my family until I had my daughter last year. And now to think I’m the oldest person in my family just baffles me.
2026-06-17 00:18:43
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that_girl0.0 :
I lost my dad at 20 unexpectedly and had to give him cpr. sometimes I envy people who still have their dad's. I feel like being in your 20s is the time a girl needs their dad the most. To help fix things, give advice, be there. Be there for your main adult milestones.
2026-06-17 01:43:42
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McKenna :
Nobody will ever understand this struggle. Except those who have experienced it.
2026-06-18 19:21:41
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nav :
i lost my dad at 17. senior year of highschool. i wish i could know the person i could’ve been before then
2026-06-17 14:44:55
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mo_money :
I unfortunately feel bitterness towards people who are grown adults and still have their parents. I lost my dad when I was 21. Seeing coworkers in their 40s and 50s that still have both of their parents makes me miserable. Like I didn’t get to have my dad walk me down the aisle when I got married. My dad will never meet his granddaughter. But I had a coworker who’s in her 70s lose her mom. Like what?! I would love just an extra 10 years with my dad, let alone 50?! Crazy to me.
2026-07-06 21:29:13
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LOLA LOVE :
I lost my parents at 13 and a half and 14. They died nine months apart. Now, i'm 23 and it's like unfathomable I feel like I have bo idea what I am doing.
2026-06-19 19:21:01
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Laurs :
I lost my dad at 17 and for me it’s the silent grieving that no one will ever understand. I feel disconnected from people in a way, and am always worried that everyone I care for will suddenly pass. Every big milestone comes with a painful sadness I cry about later by myself. Knowing I will get to a point where I will have lived longer without him than I had him. Wishing I learned more from him, and having to figure out so many adulting things by myself. It’s almost been 9 years and it hurts like it happened yesterday.
2026-07-09 02:09:44
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