It's a bad habit of victimization we people have, in reality people and places stay in our life for seasons to teach us something that we might not understand in the moment but only lookimg back after long time. You make negative association of loss but try replacing with grefulness and do someting good in the memory of those people and griends, ot was a blessing to know them and learn something from them that is meant to use in the next part of the journey.
2026-06-17 00:04:51
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I love your account so much! fell in love with your dating advice as a 19 year old girl much needed and you are able to put so many things that have maybe already crossed my mind or new things all together and make it make sense haha so thanks for that. i grew up in england, now im back but i lived in chile from ages 9-17, i can totally relate to the bits you have mentioned about moving as a child and haven’t really met many people that have had the same experiences as me especially specifically chile europe! i lost both my parents before i was 17 so i guess grief expert 😂but i agree with you while i do miss them deeply everyday i try my best to not let it stop me growing and carry what i learnt from loved ones, friends i have lost from death or moving or just life into the present so i can be hopeful for my future i guess and keep their memory with me without fixating on the the could and should haves. and has been soso important for me to let myself be angry/sad talk it through or journal about it
2026-06-17 14:00:46
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ARBUZ ARBUZ :
thank you, you sound a bit like my old er sister 😂
2026-06-16 19:24:34
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thank u for this 3-part-grief talk, class. i needed that!
2026-06-16 19:46:53
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Carole Ann :
Love your wise words. Grieving widow of one year. Anger, self forgiveness and leaning in are all part of the process of loss
2026-06-16 21:28:25
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VindecareaDupaNarcisism :
You hold on to anger and you say things like - I like it, Anger is not a fuel for good things its a signal that you need to forgive yourself. If you feel like showing grateful to your art teacher do something in her memory, dedicate a painting to her, write an article to comemeorate her in the place where she is from local newspaper, talk to her like she is listening now, because her spirit does listen and if u listen.. it replies.
2026-06-17 00:18:41
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VindecareaDupaNarcisism :
“The day the child realizes that all adults are imperfect, he becomes an adolescent; the day he forgives them, he becomes an adult; the day he forgives himself, he becomes wise.”
2026-06-17 00:08:08
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rhiannonlouiseex :
I recently lost my late partner due to an assisted death this has helped a lot your words are well thought of and spoken 🩷❤️🩹 your amazing I really enjoy your videos x
2026-06-16 20:06:57
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