@dr.shawna: Ari Kytsya’s skit sent me down a rabbit hole, because it is such a clever punchline that says so much about how women’s identities shift and take on different meanings because of something scholars call relational autonomy. In part 3 of 4 of this series of hot takes with citations, we unpack that concept along with relational roles to explore how our expectations of women are shaped by their proximity to men. For more on that, let’s go to the research! #LearnOnTikTokContest #DidYouKnow #psychology #socialscience
“Why does she want to go to the club? She already met me !”
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Lavie :
You lwk look similar to gigi hadid !
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DesignMooreSD :
You two would make a great podcast. But not in the same room, more like this. Split like skits and then social commentary, then wrapping it up together at the end. And sometimes you switch places.
2026-06-16 23:58:49
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Liv_was_here :
No bc like I thought you liked me bc I was silly or bc I was willing to talk about things deeply or dancing like you knew this and still wanted me now it’s supposed to not be there but now you miss me and who I was make that make sense
2026-06-17 03:01:39
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e w :
Met my man at a music festival, after so many years together we prioritize going to at least 1-2 festivals a year bc it brings us back to what initially drew us together 💕
2026-06-18 16:03:49
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penispump :
this series is too good
2026-06-16 20:08:30
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𝐓𝐘𝐋𝐄𝐑 𝐖𝐄𝐒𝐓 :
Hey so your brain is really cool and I love this series. 💕
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Miss Missy :
CITATIONS?! immediate follow
2026-06-17 00:48:18
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CharlieDoingCharlieStuff :
i love this breakdown about relational autonomy! thank you so much for taking the time to say this.
2026-06-17 12:42:39
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Jaime N Rob Haynes :
Hey Dr. Shawna, just wanted to say I love your content!
2026-06-16 20:26:26
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account :
Immediate follow
2026-06-18 13:47:36
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scorpiomarsss :
im so excited for part 4
2026-06-18 15:17:30
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Sydney :
I love Ari and I love you breaking this down! I hope Ari sees your videos!
2026-06-18 17:28:02
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A✨𖤐 :
omg love it
2026-06-18 14:46:45
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Fugly :
No problem. Go to the club. And I’ll go to the club too. We will all be going to the club. Because we’re all complex individuals.
2026-06-18 15:58:17
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BlackGirlMishap :
This was something that broke me completely a few years ago, I had to learn that I am A PERSON, which is not separate from my SELF as a woman who is a mother, partner, daughter, but is the first thing I am, and directs how I move through the world. Thanks for your analysis of these concepts!
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lilblueie :
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Fantastic no notes 10/10
2026-06-16 20:25:11
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🙈🙈🙈💣 :
I loved my gender, sexuality and media class at uni and was soo bummed that it was only for one semester. But now that I've found your series which is a perfect replacement.
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Shauna :
“Skimming over all the other possibilities that make her a complex individual” so perfectly said.
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mads :3 :
two intelligent women yesss love supporting other gals
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